>Live happily with gf
>She's found a job in her city
>Ask me to go with her
>I say i don't, know i'm not sure because her city is probably fucked up
>She says "ok let's go and try, if things doesn't work out, we come back"
>we go, her job is nice, but the city is in fact fucked up and the job market is totally unexistant
>I tell her to come back with me
>"listen, i really like my job here"
>i go back to our previous country, 1 month later fighting over the phone and she's still there
saying she loves me and miss me, but she cannot leave her city now
What would you do/say in my case?.
Live with her and if she loves you, she'll support you until you find a job.
>>18275477
She chose her career over you. Sucks but thats what modern women want. I think you should break up with her.
>>18275483
She actually tried to convince me that way, but the city is fucked up really bad. I cannot see myself living in that city even if i have a good job. I will be condemned to be poor just because she wants to make a career(to become rich). It just won't work out.
It would help if you told us what city this is.
>>18275537
What do you mean "fucked up"?
Do you fear for your safety? What's the actual issue?