So I got my ex girlfriend pregnant
Im 27 and she's 34, I was a virgin before we met so I had to open up to her about my sexual ineptitude, we raw dogged it a few times, she insisted, now im not gonna make excuses, I fucked up on that but there was this one time she slid my penis in her intentionally when I had a hard time putting on the condom because I had performance issues for many years, im not gonna blame her and cause her to stress out, we might plan on getting an abortion but tomorrow she's gonna make an appointment and were gonna go together and see how the embryo is, I don't want her to go at this alone.
What should I do /adv/ this is the only place I can go to talk about this.
She's 34,it's not a bad time for her to have a kid at all. Just go through with the birth unless she really insists otherwise you pussy
>>18275315
Heres something else, the day we broke up she hooked up with her ex.
How much do you like your girlfriend and what's your financial situation? 34 isn't young, at that age a woman can't really afford anymore to fool around without thinking about the future if she ever wants to have a family. It's your child, if you abort it you may keep wondering for the rest of your life what kind of person he or she might have been.
>>18275320
We met like around February, I don't know, I told her that I didnt have any strong feelings for her, Ive always had problems with sex and relationships and when I met her I wanted to be honest, and tell her about my problems but now she's pregnant and she feels responsible for the times we had unprotected sex.
>>18275320
I make a decent amount
I don't know her well.enough to have a family with her, she does have a child, her ex cheated on her about a year ago and we met, honestly I met her so I can be honest to her and get help surrounding my issues, I always had a difficult time with relationships, dating, sex and I had really bad performance issues since age 23
You two probably aren't ready for a baby together. Go with her to the appointment. It's important that you are in sync with one another through this. Whatever may come, both of you should make your feelings known. This is a big decision either way and being there for each other is the best thing you can do for one another.
>>18275316
Strong possibility it's the ex's then.