>be me, be 21 >get the most perfect first girlfriend (18)

Get married and live on base with her.

I mean you did say you love her and she's the perfect gf, right?

think about it rationally. you can plow women while she's gone, and she can fuck military men while she's gone. does this mean that either of you are going to find love in the next few years and forget about each other? I don't see any indication.

so just leave it at, "I'll be here for you when you get back." if you have to romanticize it as "I'll wait for you!' then go ahead and do that. just don't get your hopes up. a lot can change in four years, especially in the military.

Long distance relationships never work out.

I seriously, SERIOUSLY doubt you guys truly love each other after 2 months of dating, unless you were close friends for much longer. Maybe you share a strong infatuation and have a good relationship, but love? Unlikely.

I say rail her for a few more months, and call her leaving to go to the Military the end of the relationship. You'll get over her.

>>18271558
lol she's your first gf, you don't know what perfect is. You naturally feel this way but know that's your perspective is warped because she is your first.

Women in military do get targeted heavily because a bunch of horny men with no outlet only have a few women to choose from. Most of them are ugly so if your gf is cute then it's gonna be heavy. Imagine the most alpha top gun tom cruise hitting her up every day while she is away from you and you can't do anything about it.

I'd say break up and date other women

>>18271558
All military chicks, officer or enlisted, are getting enough dick that they could probly build a ladder to the moon from all the cocks they've taken. You've been warned. There is no exception

>>18271577
This.

I'm going with her to the recruiters tomorrow, should I try and discourage her from joining? Is there any way I can do this without seeming like a insecure, controlling boyfriend? I really want to make this work, I've said no to 6 other girls during my life, because I never connected with them on this sort of level. desu I could marry her right now and I would regret nothing. I want this to work

>>18271577
not OP

I understand what you're saying, but I have had many other women and still believe my first was the best, probably because she was (others were fat and cruel)

so I fail to see your first point

>>18271558
>>18271577
>>18271589
These. When I was in the military we went through the entire nurse's barracks no exceptions. Most were married or had boyfriends back home - didn't matter. Women live for validation and military men know how to play towards this. Factor in that a 5 would be considered Baghdadable, so if your gf is any better looking than that, she will have in shape, charismatic, horny men sending her home limping. Sorry, OP.