I dumped my ex 2 weeks ago, he's been trying so hard to

Maybe the reason you felt like he cared more than anyone is because he cared a little too much huh? Like that was part of his manipulation?

I'd say move on. Sounds like you need more freedom and space to breath. You don't owe him anything.

Did he do anything wrong?
Did he sleep with anyone else?

>>18271003
He was loyal the whole time. He told me that since this was his first relationship he was confused and just loved the power of control but said it wasn't an excuse. he's such a sweet guy but when he doesn't get his way, he makes me feel bad in a manipulative way. when we got back together, he did improve his character but I'm not sure if it's just temporary

>>18271009
Well, you don't seem to like him, so you should leave.

It's just that i keep thinking of how i used to be, with my first girlfriend. I overdid basically everything, though we were going to get married, and of course, i was very skilled at talking her into having sex with me.

But i overdid it, we had some fights, and eventually she realized she didn't love me anymore, citing similar reasons like yours.

Maybe its a thing with trust. If you try very hard to please and impress someone, you also come off as untrustworthy.

Lol you dumped him and he's still pursuing?

That is weak needy pathetic behavior. If he was worth getting back with, he would just say "okay let me know if you change your mind, I respect your decision."

He's basically trying to force himself on you. Don't let him. He won't even give you space or time to make up your own mind about how you feel because deep down he knows he's not good enough and he's afraid that you'll realize it.