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She's good looking, but not stunning.
She's not particularly intelligent.
She doesn't have a stable career and lacks motivation and discipline.
She doesn't come from a good family.
She didn't treat me particularly well.
She has a habit of lying.
She led me on in the past despite telling me she loves me.
And yet I can't get over her. We dated for 2 years and have been separated for about 6 months, and every now and then I'll think about her. When I find out she's dating someone new I go berzerk. What is wrong with me and how do I overcome it? This isn't my first relationship and had it been any other girl I would have been over it.
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>>18269992
She doesn't have to be perfect for you to still love her.
That's what love is.
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>>18270016
I know, but she's not even average. I don't know what it is that attracts me to her and I can't understand why I can't get over her.
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>>18270043
So? who cares what her social 'value' is?
You still love her, maybe there isn't an easy explanation as to why. Why did you break it off?
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>>18270055
I didn't mean to come off as some pompous jackass who only looks at a woman's social status, but what I wanted to imply is that given that she lacks the things that attract most men -- honesty, intelligence, drive, etc. -- I'm unsure why I'm so enchanted by her.
We decided to take a "break". I'm a medical student and the workload was really starting to pile on, so she felt neglected at times. She still said she loved me throughout, but I found out she got with another guy, after which I was and still am adamant that I'll never be with her again.
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>>18270097
Well if you're certain on that, perhaps you should put yourself out there and try dating more. It's easier to find another you will click with. It's really just a numbers game
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