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Matched with a Bumble/Tinder girl a month ago. We've had sex a couple times, it's great. We also hang out and go on dates.
She doesn't want a relationship because she's moving to New York in October and she just got out of a relationship. I don't want a relationship either.
She told me she doesn't want exclusivity, I accepted that because it's her choice. Her reasoning is that she doesn't want to get too attached to me. Also probably because fucking multiple people is fun. I don't know if I can handle that though.
Last week she told me she had sex with another guy, I felt emasculated but part of me didn't care because that's what she told me, what we agreed upon.
How do I know if I'm emotionally mature enough to handle something like this? Anyone have similar experiences? Is it worth?
It feels "unbalanced" because it takes months for me to find girls interested, and she has a much much easier time.
TLDR : Should I continue to fuck/hang out with girl, even if she fucks other dudes?
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>>18269957
Easiest solution is to tell her you cant deal with thoughs of her fucking other dudes and tell her to never talk about any other dudes with you ever again.
>should I continue to fuck
It is your life, not mine. My suggestion is to find real girlfriend, not just walking vagina.
>>18250471
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you are a cuckold
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Sounds like you'd be interested in a relationship if she weren't moving away. Am I wrong?
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>>18270101
Honestly indifferent. She's cool but I like the casual aspect of it. I've still been using apps but its slow going.
Any other advice? Anyone been in a similar situation?
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>>18269957
why would she come out and tell you? this is extremely poor form. the non exclusive thing is what it is, but its tactless to rub someones face in it. i would quit with the dates and hanging out and just keep it to sex only.
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>>18270572
I misspoke. I asked her and she told me, she wants to be honest and communicate.
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Come on Op, let's be honest, no one is okay with someone fucking around. Sex is not something people should focus their life on and of course you'll feel bad about it. Trust your guts, you know what's good for you.
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Well you obviously have feelings for her so you probably should tell her that stuff bothers you
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