Can anyone relate?
For the sake of time I'll greentext
>virgin 1 1/2 years ago
>find a girl that I feel is perfect and fall deeply in love
>we start dating
>year later, wanting more sexually
I really do love her and I find her very attractive but lately I have been fantasizing about other women probably because of my lack of experience.
What do /adv/?
>>18267360
>wanting more sexually
so do you have sex with her regularly?
Sex is a large component of any working adult relationship, and anyone that says otherwise is wrong.
if you want to fuck other people and you do have sex with her, then have more sex with your gf until you dont regularly fantasize about others.
If you havent had sex with her, then your relationship WILL fail sooner or later. You should talk to her if you're just eternally blueballed by your gf.
>>18267360
>only have had sex with one girl
>shes perfect
She's the first so you have a warped perception of what she is. It's time to try some different flavors. Get out there and explore.
>>18267430
We have sex quite regularly (1-3 times a day)
It's satisfying but I want more...
>>18267443
This is very true
I'm still attached to her though, I wish I had gotten all of this energy out before we started to date.
>>18267360
its a myth that love will satiate all your desires. men and women are always going to yearn for more. its natural. the point of love isn't to find someone who can satiate every you need you have, to do so would mean a series of very bad relationships that end simply over minor issues.
really, what love is about is finding someone that is worth trying to overcome those urges for. its like comitting your self to a diet. wanting to lose weight doesn't make you not hungry, it doesn't make you not want cake. but you over come those urges because you believe that what you're building towards is mores important.
>>18267511
>really, what love is about is finding someone that is worth trying to overcome those urges for. its like comitting your self to a diet. wanting to lose weight doesn't make you not hungry, it doesn't make you not want cake. but you over come those urges because you believe that what you're building towards is mores important.
wow thats pretty good advice