Hey guys, how was your day? Honestly interested. Also, just wanted

I'm pretty much breaking down, but I'll try to help.

Judging from what you say, it's does seem like she likes to tease you but doesn't appear to be aware of the consequences (you falling for her).

I'd say the best solution is to tell her, talking always works. Tell her what you feel and that you'd like her to stop doing that, if that doesn't suit your style, you can always occupy yourself with other things so she doesn't get to see you as often

or you can start dating someone else, that might stop the teasing.

> Block her

From every social media, tell her you're seeing someone and you're bussy atm, there are plenty of excuses

Except you won't do it, 'cause you're idealizing the girl

>>18262751
Not sure if this directly applies to you, but here's a video about flirting and why it can be ok, despite there being no chance of a relationship. Maybe try to change your perspective and not see it as a missed opportunity because she's already with someone, but as someone signaling that they think you have sexual worth, even if they don't particularly want to act on it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rZTqF5oYUqo

Also, my day was great, thanks for asking!

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>>18262778
Yeeah being straight forward seems like its always the way. I mean, I would do that but the only thing stopping me is the consequences. I really do like hanging out with her but I also need to stop interacting with her. I liked her for 3 years now, and she just now started the teasing this year. I dont know, I just feel like I've gone so far to lose it. Like fuck, why am I trying to back down? I'm the fucking man here, why would I back down from a girl teasing me? I should fucking tease her back. Ok, you think teasing her back when she starts teasing me is a good idea? If she gets mad, ill just use the "your own medicine" excuse
>>18262784
Sorry not gonna do that, she's a really good friend, cant just leave her like that. Thanks for the suggestion though.
>>18262804
Thanks for the video, ill watch it now, seriously, I appreciate the help. And what made your day so great? Anything specific?

I've been in a similar situation before, and while distancing yourself is a big help, I didn't feel truly over the girl until I found someone new. That might Just be me, so take it with a grain of salt

>>18262751
I spent all day waiting until I could get home, so I could get shitfaced and masturbate

Your girl is a problem
Ignore her
It's so fucking tempting. I know it. I've been in a very similar situation
But it's a trap.

>>18262804
Thanks for that video.

>>18262751
I spent some time today trying out a few virtual reality demos on a rift. Would love to own one myself, but reasonable excuses.

Prioritize meeting new people? I don't know, I'm kind of in a similar situation as you and I'm trying to be more sociable.

>>18262751
Shit op not bad dude. I see your having girl problems. Gay. But i swear its this week man its been wicked fucking weird. Dragging on forever and always crazy events.

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>>18262751
Hey OP. Good thread idea.
Are you in college or is this girl at your job or what? That sounds really shitty, especially if she's a friend.
I would still take >>18262778 's advice though - you should distance yourself, but you don't want to make her think you're an asshole, and that it's you not her. And hey, maybe she'll be a cunt about it and then it'll be easier.

I'm in a bad place. I'm a CS major and I've fucked myself this semester. Too many credits, not enough studying, depressed. I'm bad at coding and hate it anyway. I'm actually good at writing and I would switch to English but I already have a shiiiiit ton of credits in CS and almost none in English. Anyway the worse I do, the harder it is to stay motivated, the worse I do, and so on. I've had straight A's for a long time but it's like the imposter syndrome and self-loathing and laziness and apathy are all surfacing this semester.

The depression manifests in strange ways. I have an almost gut reaction loathing of the seemingly endless frat bros and obnoxious rude 'build le ebin wall XD' types I see all over campus. It's a large southern public university so it's is crawling with them. I have recurring intrusive thoughts of them beating the shit out of me. I've been lifting for almost 2 years but it doesn't make me feel better, it just makes me that much more aware of how much stronger all these other guys are despite how much effort I've put into it. Suicidal ideation is increasing too.

I hurt myself for the first time the other day, not cutting but beating myself with a belt, almost like flagellation.

I'm so burnt out and I'm the verge of panic and suicide that I keep fucking up my last chances to turn grades around. I had a programming assignment and I just... didn't finish. I couldn't concentrate. I put it off because I was so afraid instead of working, then panicked and beat myself over it when I did have to work. The more it happens, the more these horrible feelings proliferate.

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>>18262778
Why you breaking down bud? Share your troubles. It makes me feel less shitty for wallowing in my own if I can help another.

>>18263152
It's obvious you're not putting your heart onto it? Why don't switch or drop put? It does sound a little dramatic but its about your life and the time youre wasting with things that arent worth it

or you can always force yourself throught and then go and do something else. The outside doesnt care about grades and youd be surprised to learn how many people do NOT work on things they studied for. Also, college its just a phase, take it easy

>>18263592
I made a morally wrong decision. Nothing bad came out of it, but the guilt is killing me

>>18263992
Most people who are breaking down do to guilt do so because their actions have cause someone else great suffering - you must have extremely strong moral beliefs. This is good. But I'd hate to see someone with strong morals be brought down while goons and jerks cause mayhem scot-free. Sometimes you just gotta say 'no harm, no foul' and forgive yourself. It's ok anon.

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>>18262751
day has been ok

had a weak convo with this girl after asking for pics of her butt that didnt really go anywhere. im gonna just let her sit and cool for a few days before i return to talking to her normally

i quite like her, but i'm not sure if i'm going too fast and rushing things. it's been a week and a half and i think she likes me. a week ago we would talk for hours every night and now....its just slowed to a crawl. all i got today out of her were 2-line replies.

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>>18262972
Nice, masturbation eases the mind. And I'm sorry but I can't ignore her like that, she's a good friend. She helped me so much. I wont fall for an obvious trap though.
>>18263084
You gonna watch virtual reality porn? And I'm fine on the social stand point, she's not the only friend I have.
>>18263105
Hey, be happy that you're having an eventful life, some people just see their basement everyday.
>>18263152
Coworker so I cant avoid her that much without it being obvious or dickish looking. Yeesh, that sounds hard but you have to stop it. Its going to get worse if you do nothing. I've been through a similar situation where I just kept feeling more and more sad everyday. It was sophomore highschool year and I made the soccer team and was a starter so I was all happy but then after like 6 games I got kicked out because I had an F in math. I felt really depressed because soccer was the only thing that made me proud of myself and I just screwed it up by being a retard. I kept telling myself that I was stupid and a retard. It just spiraled out of control but my someone saved me and I'm grateful. Just dont kill yourself ok? And don't believe that it will get better, you have to make it better, it wont get better by itself.
>>18264159
Never ask a girl for nudes or whatever if you want a real relationship. I dont care what everyone else says, you just shouldn't do that. To show you like her, respect her boundaries. You better hurry up and ask her why she hasn't been talking that much, you might lose a potential gf. I know you want to see her naked but show that you respect her.

prank dwight