Okay I know it's definitely not uncommon but why do I get

>>18261979
Refractory period?

I can imagine not being that interested in her body after sex, and maybe even finding vajajay gross, but being repulsed by her as a person is pathological. You don't even feel that glow where you just want to hold her close, that non-sexual intimacy that comes when the lust part is spent? Even if it's just casual and you don't love each other, I'd think that you should still value each other and feel close, even if it isn't "love." There are many ways to be intimate.

Maybe check to make sure you're not a sociopath of misogynist?

It is biological. You are evolutionary groomed to mate with as many different women as possible. By losing interest after mating you are encouraged to find some else and spread your resources out, instead of investing into one child.

>How do I stop this?
I have no idea my friend. Start friendships with girls who you have no intentions of fucking?

It's called being a human male. You might as well ask how to survive without water or air.

>>18262034
Lol. Refractory period has nothing to do with fertilizing multiple females. Otherwise, men would only lose sexual arousal in the partner they just had sex with, rather than not being able to have an additional orgasm for a period AT ALL. It's not like after you jack off, you get it up again as soon as you switch porn tabs.

I don't know if there's any actual evolutionary reason for the refractory period, or if it's just a spandrel that results from other traits. But your explanation doesn't fit any of the facts we have.

>>18262069

The refractory period is how long it takes for the nerves to become sensitive again. I'm not talking about that.

I'm talking about the emotional response of disinterest and/or disgust.

Feel like you'd benefit from learning to value women in non-sexual ways. Just consider them as, y'know, people...unless you're a misanthrope. In which case this is not the problem that needs your attention.

>sociopath
I don't think so. I have heaps of empathy for people every day and make an effort to better everyone's lives in my own way.
>misogynist
no
>misanthropist
usually. It's closer to feeling that every person around me is a frustrating distraction, regardless of gender. When people don't present things in a way that's valuable to my interests, I struggle to pay attention.

>>18262131
>When people don't present things in a way that's valuable to my interests, I struggle to pay attention.
So it sounds like all this boils down to you being fundamentally self-centred, as so many of us are in varying degrees and for varying reasons. How to fix that...if you find out please let me know. Or maybe it's the way for all of us and we just need to learn to play it in a healthy way...I don't know.

>>18262093
Well, seeing as how that emotional response would be contemporaneous with the refractory period, how would it function to motivate the male to seek out other partners?