/adv/ >be me >24 >no longer a kv >hooked up with

dude just chill
it's cool
just wait until you feel better. like, it gets better.
you need to look on the bright side. you got laid and that's good. she didn't want a commitment though. move on, you'll find someone that will want to stick around. maybe try and figure out if they're more hook up than commit next time?

>>18255776
I dont know what works for you man, but for me all i do is go for a drive or a bike ride and, i know this is over-used, everything else falls away

>>18256019
Same for me. I go for a drive and it helps.

But only temporarily.

>>18255776
I feel you nigga, Was in this situation too. Only time will heal.... and new pussy.... and maybe throwing yourself into work.

>>18256045
>But only temporarily.

no shit, you're not meant to live a happy life all the time

>>18255776

If you're going to kill yourself because the first girl who hooked up with you doesn't want to date you for the rest of her life, you might as well just do it and save yourself the trouble. Dating is about figuring out if the chemistry between you two works, among other things. It's not always going to work out, and it's never perfect.

>>18255776
>how do i get thru this shit guys?
You just gotta find a new girl.

Forget the time heals all wounds shit because it sounds like you're taking it hard. Which means it's going to take a shit ton of time for you to get over it.

I know because I've been in the same situation. I'm in it right now. I keep thinking back to the way things were. Holding onto certain memories with her that I can't let go of. Wondering if I had done something differently would we still be together.

It's fucked me up bad. And the craziest part is I'm trying to move away from here. Yet I'm still longing for this girl.

>>18256383
>work

I want to focus on something productive but end up just finding myself staring at the computer screen or playing vidya.

>>18256395
She told me she needed to have some alone time due past relationship drama

I feel like it's gonna take me long time again to find a girl cuz im so introverted and different than the normies