I can't get my ex out of my head /adv/ what do i do ? heres the story to bring you all to speed
>be me 17
>incredibly low self esteem
>meet girl who's younger
>she brings me back up and out of my shell
> 4 months pass and things are good her family and friends like me and she likes my friends and family
>one of the main problems begins to show itself
>her and my former best friend got very close like hanging out without close
>felt a little hurt but didn't act straight away
>eventually come to blows about it
>she wouldn't pick sides
>3 weeks later she ends it
>managed to convince her to keep us going
>take her virginity things seem to be going well
>it finally ends over Skype as well
>sink into depression
>2 months later i find she's dating my former friend
>get into fight with him
>haven't spoken with them since
but i still cry at the thought of her leaving and still want her back no matter what. its been 7months how do i move on ?
>>18255000
7 months? Jesus op, out of sight out of mind. Just stopping thinking about it and finding something new you like doing.
>>18255013
she's not out of sight though
You need more time we all feel terrible when someone feels they need to move on
We feel the things we hate of ourselves are untrue we are are afraid we can't feel what we felt again or that we won't find someone again and in your case the best friend makes things worse
You need to find things that you enjoy doing to build your Confidence again,go and do new things paint ,or even driving lessons do anything new that will make you feel better and the best thing is to find someone new
She definitely has moved on she probably was discussing this with your friend when to break up and they are now enjoying their time together discovering each other for the next few months and so you have to accept there is no chance for you both and you have to give someone new a chance to be with you
Are true*
>>18255091
i honestly don't know how to even "put myself back out there" anymore girls seem to avoid me anyhow
>be me 17
Really makes you think. No really, it does. You're fucking 17. GET OVER IT. You need to understand that the majority of relationships people get into between the ages of 15-20 do not last. Don't take it so hard because it's inevitable at your age and frankly it's for the best. You're in a very important stage in your life and you'll continue to change as a person over the next few years. Have fun, date other girls, get experience so when you're older you're not a autistic when it comes to women.
When you're in your 20's and you have a REAL relationship and it goes south then you can maybe be upset, but please don't get upset over a short relationship that goes belly up. Get upset over a relationship that you sunk years into.