Have you ever screwed up terribly with a girl and fixed it?

>>18254324

Pt 2

then to top it all off, i got arrested with a dui on the way home, after she told me i should stay because i was fucked up. So i feel incredibly awful for that, and now i have a huge hole to dig myself out of over the remainder of the year.

I don't understand what was going on with me, i'm not a reckless person, i just made a huge mistake that night and i can't take it back. She said her interest in me being more than friends is pretty much gone now, but she'd give me a chance to explain myself in person and maybe one more date to see if i can be cool again, once she gets back from her trip this week. It's killing me waiting to get everything off my chest right now.

tl;dr

>had a good thing going with girl
>got all fucked up around her, went to jail and screwed up everything including my life
>tarnished my good impression for her
>maybe getting a chance to redeem myself, but it doesn't look good

Well, you fucked up big time by leaving, but you already knew that. Consider yourself the luckiest guy on earth that she's willing to give you another chance. What you should do with that chance should be obvious: there's something(s) about you that she was in to before, so if you know what those things are, just make sure to show them off perfectly when you get your date with her. Hopefully she'll come to realize that one mistake doesn't define a person, and things will go back to normal.
Best wishes, bud.

>>18254606

Thanks anon. I hope things go back to normal. Just a few days ago she was texting me good morning with hearts and kissy faces, making my day by saying how much she enjoys spending time with me. Now she's being incredibly short with me. Granted, she's busy packing and shit for her trip, but i just hope she meant it when she said she'd give it another date.. That's all i need, even if it doesn't change her mind. I can't have the last time i saw her be it.

I took four months to make a move on a girl I was in love with from the start that, by all counts, should have friendzoned me. Not sure how I managed this, but she's my girlfriend now.

>>18255454

Happy for you, but that isn't a fuck up. You didn't do something like not listen to her and go to jail for it..

I mean the DUI is a big deal but I don't see how "acting weird" after smoking weed is. That happens to tons of people. Me included. You shouldn't have smoked it, but you already know that. Either way, I don't see why that matters so much.