So, here's the situation: >be me >be shy >20

Ehm, so you have a GF, but you didn't kiss her? If so, I wouldn't even consider her to be your girlfriend. She is a friend.

How the fuck do these kinda "relationships" happen?

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>>18251351
Here's a bumperooni

>>18251368
No, that one is certain. We both agree that we're a couple.

>>18251380
How does that shit even work? Do you just give her a hug and then declare that you're a couple?

To me it doesn't really add up. I can't imagine a girl with just about any level of experience not expecting at least a kiss when you're a couple. If it really is true, then I guess she really, really, really likes you and then you shouldn't worry. Otherwise she might be inexperienced as well and then I guess it shouldn't be a problem.

Seriously, I don't get this

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>>18251399
I didn't mean the friendly kind of hugs.
And we got together very recently and i feel that I'll have to kiss her on tuesday, which is why I'm on /adv/
Thanks for the positive reinforcement, anon

>>18251413
So you hug very passionately?

Why hasn't she demanded a kiss? Doesn't she think it's really weird not kissing her boyfriend? Don't you find it weird?

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>>18251420
>yes we do
>because she thinks that the guy should lead
>she probably does
>as I said, she's my first gf. I have absolutely no idea how this shit works.

>>18251351
Where did you find her OP? Same position as you without the gf :/

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>>18251469
We did archery together.
Asked for her number after a couple months, took her on a couple dates where all we did was talk, then basically asked her if she wanted to be my gf at the end of our second date.
Gave her a lot of time to think of an answer.
I don't think this would work with most grills, but what do I know.

>>18251351
Well, touch her hips, let your hands wander on her stomach and hips when you two are chilling together, caress her legs. She'll be up to kissing in no time. Watch a lesbian mke out video on youtube beforehand to see the technique. You can work your way up to tongue kisses. Next time you see her give her a littlw kiss on the lips. Sometimes kiss her cheeks and lips lightly. You'll find it enjoyable and want more of that. Then just follow your feeling

>>18251399
I don't consider a girl my girlfriend until after sex and communicative establishment of exclusivity.

>>18251351
Here's what I did

>work out and groom
>get good looking and ottermode at 6'2"
>get good at talking to people
>pretend I'm the ladies man character in movies like Crazy Stupid Love
>nothing can go wrong because I'm that character
>treat the chick poorly
>have sex and make out as if I had done it before, with full confidence because I was playing a character
>chick cries in bed after I lose my virginity and asks if I'm going to keep seeing her or if I was just playing her for sex
>realize that I'm an undercover cop level actor
>persue film school

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>>18251504
Sounds like good advice, thanks anon.. I think I'll try that.
But kissing her just like that as soon as I see her? Are you sure that'd work?
I'm not even sure I can work up the courage to do it like that

>>18251519
Nah, I'm going for long term.

>>18251519
Kek you've inspired me, I was just lurking for the luls but I really want to try this now

>>18251537
I'm legit in film school but for screenwriting now.

It works. I use the get in character technique for anything social that is difficult. I do great at presentations and do stand up comedy with the same technique.

>>18251532
Fucking lmao bro

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>>18251548
What did you expect, I'm a virgin.
Naive af.
I think I'll get better with experience.

>>18251591
Have fun when this chick rips your heart out.

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>>18251600
Nah, I kinda already have sizeable amounts of experience with that.
I'm kinda expecting failure at every turn now so I doubt she could emotionally impact me at this point

Just kiss her, if she really likes you it'd be fine if you "fuck up"

>>18251613
Wait until after you fuck her for a while and then tell me that.

>>18251525
>But kissing her just like that as soon as I see her? Are you sure that'd work?
Dude she'll love it. You go like "hey anonette!" As soon as you see her. And then give her a peck on the lips and then hug her tight. Maybe she'll be a little surprised at first but she'll fucking love it. Also, just touch that cute body of hers. A girl who really likes you craves that stuff.

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>>18251623
>>18251642
Thanks, I'll try this.

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>>18251642
Hold on, there is a problem.
We're meeting somewhere where her and/or my friends are very likely to see us.
I don't know if I should risk making this uncomfortable and awkward.
Also, I'm very clumsy with these things which would double the awkwardness

>>18251519
That's how I got my current girlfriend

>>18251695
>boyfriend says hi to gf, not showing any physical affection
THAT is weird. You're basically forced to give her a peck on the lips nigga, ESPECIALLY if her her friends are nearby

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>>18251731
Huh.
You may be right, but I'll wait for someone else to reply, just to be sure.
Also I'm not sure her friends know

>>18251755
I hate saying stuff like that, but be a fucking man and show people that she's your girl. Shying away from stuff like that is fucking awkward like you wouldn't believe it. She'll love you for taking initiative and showing physical affection and you'll love kissing her cute red lips and seeing them form a smile because you just kissed her

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>>18251793
...fine.
I'll be going all in then.
Wish me luck.
Any more advice on this?

>>18251816
>all in then
dude it's a peck on your girlfriends lips to say hello like you should say hello to your girl.

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>>18251867
Did you read the original post?
I'm a kissless virgin, it's a very big step for me.
Also, I'm very afraid of fucking this up.

>>18251816
>Any more advice on this?
Yeah, don't be so selfless, think about what you want to do with her and do it, don't just think about her, then it should come naturally...

>>18251874
Push your dick between her cameltoe

Girls love that and you need to show her and her friends that she's your girl

She'll never leave you if you do this

Sincerely,
A real life woman

>>18251874
https://youtu.be/Vcfxm-q5VjM
Like I said, she'll love it.

>>18251695
Do it. She wants the man to lead. Lead. Kiss your woman.

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Ok, thanks guys, I never thought that 4chan would ever be helpful.
I'm going to bed now cause central Europe and I kinda have a life.
Here's some tendies as thanks.