Why is it so fucking hard for me to find a relationship? I'm

You sound boring. Reverse the roles and think, why would a girl be interested in you?

Bump. Same situation, but 20 and just got back from baic training

>>18251020
How does one become more interesting? Obviously OP has messeged grills but sounds like the are boring

>>18251034
Do interesting things. Get cool hobbies.

>>18251017
>What am I doing wrong?
Here's a clue
>During college, I wasn't a very social person - I did party a bit, but I didn't make any meaningful connections. After college, I got a job in this town while most people I knew moved away. I now only have my best friend living in this city and 2 other people I occasionally grab drinks with.
>I don't know how to meet women. All the relationships I've been in, I was introduced to the girl via some friend and things went from there. Now I only have friends who are like me, with no female friends
Being attractive won't get you a relationship.
90% of life is showing up, you have to socialise and know how to approach and talk to women, if you aren't doing new things and meeting new people, you won't get better at it.

>>18251034
>How does one become more interesting?
Do things, anything.
Take up running, join a boxing club, learn a language, go somewhere, sight see, take photos, take up an unusual hobby.

Saying "I sat in my room throughout uni and go to the gym" makes you sound like a boring cunt.
Saying "I run a couple of times a week and take photos of castles" shows that you get out and about and have something that you enjoy doing.
Saying "I'm a boxer and my win ratio is X:Y" shows you have a hobby that you do at a sort of competitive level.

It's really that straight forward.

>>18251017
The fact is that most girls your age aren't going to want serious relationships for another 4-5 years, I'm 24 and only women in their late 20's early 30's seem interested in me (well, at least until they find out my age).

Just keep doing what you do on tinder/okcupid, eventually you'll find someone who wants the same thing as you. It'll get easier when you reach the age when people start wanting to settle down and start families.

>>18251017
>>18251024
Two words:
>online dating
You wont obtain girl without trying first. And dont return back until at least you had 30 dates!

>>18251076
Like what?

>>18251125
Learn a language, get involved in volunteer work, do a sport or go to a gym, go to museums, read books, watch movies, listen to music.

>>18251101
>The fact is that most girls your age aren't going to want serious relationships for another 4-5 years

They do want serious relationships, but only with 30-something men earning six-figure sums.

>>18251125
I write and record music. I'm also a screenwriting major and write a lot. And I work at a drug rehab center.

Get some non-consumption hobbies

>consumption
listening to music, going to concerts, going to plays, movies, reading, traveling

>body
any working out or sport or dancing

>creative
writing, painting, drawing, writing music, making videos

Make stuff.

>>18251017
>gym twice a week so I'm quite fit
>twice a week
>quite fit
Lanklets, when will they learn...

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>>18251017

Listen, dude.

I don't know you, but here is just my first impression. You opened up this thread with stats about your height, gym habits and income, which leads me to believe you at least moderately subscribe to the 4chan ideology that a going to the gym, having money and nice clothes means you are entitled to female attention. If you really had a good understanding of women and how relationships work you would know that, inherently, being tall and fit has almost nothing to do with developing meaningful relationships.

Then the second part of your post you just kind of complained about how picky you are and how boring everyone is. I may be going out on a limb here but your slight air of entitlement combined with your tendency to be overly critical of those around you may be causing women to just kind of avoid you.

This has nothing to do with money or status or hobbies or dressing yourself up as an attractive package because there are plenty of 20 somethings with no cars or jobs out there in relationship.

Again, bit of a limb here, but I think its your attitude. That or you're just a boring sack of shit and you don't know it. Either way, stop focusing on trying to build this "girl resume" of fancy hobbies and statistically attractive qualities. Thats robot shit. Good women can smell a try-hard from a mile away and it sucks to be around.

>>18251639
The 30-year old thing may be true, but the 6-figure sum thing just makes you sound like a bitter virgin that's planning to shoot up a school.

>>18251096
oh man, why are you so fcnk right?