How do I get over an embarrassing sexual encounter? I'm

Tell the new girl about your insecurity if things seem to be heading towards sex.

>>18250025
I suppose this is the most obvious answer, thank you

>>18249162
>100% my fault, but she nearly cried because she felt embarrassed.
Greentext that now

Come on man, that's not the end of the world. Instead of just jumping to sex just explore her again.

>100% my fault, but she nearly cried because she felt embarrassed.

What the fuck did you actually do? Bitch cried that you did not last long? What the fuck happened?

Couldn't get it up? Shit happens man, it's not the end of the world
She probably overreacted

>>18250494
Probably he couldn't get it up, because he was drunk to or some shit

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>>18250470
In a freak accident I found out she browses /adv/, or at least has in the past. But hey, fuck it, right? I guess a LITTLE backstory is needed to really give it some heft. Maybe a little meat will get the thread moving, too.

>Meet this girl while a drunk teenager at a diner, she's my waitress and think she's cute. Give her my number but never hear from her, oh well
>Like 4 or 5 years later, get a job at the same place she works, completely by chance. (I didn't even know it was the same girl from above for another few years, when I introduced her to my friend who recognized her)
>She's got a long term boyfriend, but we get on really well. Think she's cute, again
>Another 2 or 3 years later (we did not work together long), she struck up a conversation with me over facebook and asked me out
>Fast forward two weeks or so. We're getting along great. She kinda surprises me by swinging by after I got out of a long shift at work. We drink a little (well, /I/ drank a little)
>For me, 2 weeks was a long time to begin sleeping with a girl that I get involved with, but when she took off her shirt she BEGGED me not to think she was a whore
>Becomes increasingly evident that we have quite a different sexual chemistry than we do rapport
>Things are not going as planned (>>18250501, >>18250502)
>She starts getting a panic attack because she, only very recently made clear to me, was very insecure about her body (and she really shouldn't be, she's bangin')
>Calm her down, eat her out twice because I'm a gentleman, manage to fuck her for like a minute before I came (no sex for like 2+ years, no bj, I don't even think I jerked off that day)
>Try again in the morning, it still isn't happening
>See her like one more time before she breaks up with me
>I don't blame her lol

Now I've got someone else who I've recently become close to, but I'm hesitant to pull the trigger because I really like having her around and I'd rather not fuck it up again.

>>18250548
She was crazy man, never stick your dick in crazy.

Glad you got out of it.

>>18250548
>I'm hesitant to pull the trigger because I really like having her around and I'd rather not fuck it up again

If you think like that you will fuck up again.

Make sure not to drink, and if you fuck up, get viagra

Its in your head however. Nothing is physically wrong with you, youre just insecure as shit.

>>18250565
Nah, she wasn't crazy, her last relationship left her on some rocky waters and it hadn't been that long ago. I think he did a number on her, emotionally.

>>18250571
I have some cialis, but I haven't put it to the test.

And trust me, I know it's all in my head. In fact, I've overcome insecurity obstacles more than a few times.

But this is easily the most embarrassing thing that's happened to me since, like, highschool. It literally could not have gone worse. I really, really don't want to chase this girl away for a minute of putting my dick in her.

>>18250548
Holy crap, I haven't fucked like for a year and I'm on porn train right now. Fapping 4 times a week on average. I hope I will be able to get it up if anything happens.

>>18249162
Take l-arginine every day and do kegels for dat dere erection strength.

>>18250598
I would recommend you chill. I didn't realize how bad my porn habit had gotten until I tried to stop.

>>18250610
I had been considering getting my test levels checks, too. I'm around that age, and I was injured a few years back and had to stop working out. Put me into a depression, which I'm sure didn't help my T levels.

>>18250618
I'm trying man, I can go like 1 fap a week but my will breaks after two weeks and I go fap spree again.

Gotta fucking fix myself.

It's like this. I'm not fapping because I don't want erection problems. Then I'm realizing I'm not gonna fuck anytime soon so why miss on it anyway.

>>18250622
If you can do cardio at least do that. L arginin is good for boner strength

>>18250630
I have my CPAT this year, so I gotta get my cardio started, anyway