so I've been hanging out a bunch with a girl who broke up with me lately, and we've been kinda become friends with emotional benefits
We hold hands on walks, go to dinners and cuddle each other to sleep
and she talks about how she wants to give me what I want and commit to a romantic relationship but can't and I don't really know what to do
I'm still super invested in her and I don't want to end this in the hopes that she realizes we're still good together but I kinda feel like a fuckin' idiot
I fuck your friens while you buy her dinner. Its a win win win
Her win = sex with chad and free dinner from beta
My win = fuck a slut
Your win = waste money on dinner for no sex but you enjoy it cause you're a cuck.
>>18248365
fuck off
>>18248346
Do you know why she wont commit?
>>18248391
We started dating after she broke off a long term relationship, so she was kind of iffy about dating to begin with.
I'm pretty confused about the whole thing. I've talked to her about it and she tells me she wants to be friends but she feels stronger about me than a friend
>>18248346
You're being used for free food and emotional fulfilment while she fucks other men. Congrats on continuing to condition women to think that they can walk all over you, because hey, they're right.
>>18248346
She's using you and playing victim, and lying.
Stop that right now and go hard no contact. This isnt some get your ex back BS, its for your own good. You need to heal, and by seeing her all the time (especially the way you describe) you wont.
Her on the other way has it just perfect: she gets to heal her broken heart (that most likely her ex, and not you, broke) and gets all the emotional support she needs to do this. But your needs aren't met, and desu she will most likely walk out on you when she's ready. And you will feel twice as shit, if not more.
Be strong please, and do what you gotta do.
Good luck