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>have long standing fwb situation with oneitis
>very close friends
>drink every weekend, do things together
>go out of way to do things for them when I can't afford it
>take care of them when sick
>get a call yesterday while at work
>"hey i met someone we can't have sex for a while sorry"
>immediately break down
>they apologize and say they want to make it up to me
tl;dr how do i kill myself as painlessly as possible
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>>18247529
Break a hornet's nest across your face.
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>>18247569
can i buy one on amazon? i'd like to make use of my prime before it expires
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>>18247529
I think you should explain yourself clearly to this person. Clearly they're interested in you at least a little.
Killing yourself isn't going to get you anywhere.
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>>18247592
they knew I was in love with them, that's why they feel like such shit about it, because they kept us in limbo for so long and led me on
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The lesson here is this: be clear with people about your feelings towards them. And if you were, don't allow yourself to be taken advantage of next time. I know it seems like a little bit of loving is better than nothing, but unrequited relationships like this don't usually turn out great for everyone involved.
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>>18247660
This
By any chance is your name Jack?
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>>18247736
nope, femanon here.
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>>18247747
I could make you forget about him, femanon.
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>>18247609
Them knowing you loved them isn't the same as you stating clearly that you want to be in a relationship with them.
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>>18247761
I expressed that on several occasions. I told him, very bluntly, that I wanted to be with him. he always left it open with maybe or whatever
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>>18247752
unless you're planning on scrambling my brains with a powerdrill I'm good. thanks though anon.
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>>18247784
I genuinely empathize with you.
You won't make the mistake a second time, though. Try to take comfort in that I suppose.
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>>18247802
that's the thing, it had happened once before and he knew that. i just didn't want to believe he would do that to me.
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>>18247529
This is why FWB situations are a terrible idea. They very rarely actually work like they're supposed to. You can't fuck someone repeatedly and not have at least one of the people catch feelings. I feel for you OP, but if you want stuff like this to stop happening you're going to have to give up on the fwb nonsense.
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>>18247899
It wasn't supposed to be fwb, I don't even like sex. I was doing it because I knew he wanted it and I wanted him.
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>>18247916
Then that was just a bad idea to start with
Look at long run consequences of situations in the future because knowing he just wanted sex, you should've seen this coming
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