What is the best decision you've ever made?
Mine is probably giving up alcohol and picking up a guitar
Put a lot of effort into getting the best job I could when I was 19.
Every other success I had in life stems from that decision one way or another.
Quitting school and focusing on doing what I want to do (writing) instead of following the shit others tell me to do. A decade later, I am still pretty happy with my choice, so I guess at least midterm it was a great decision.
Forgiving.
not cheating on my wife
>>18246618
play us a song.
for me, I don't know.
right now I like to think it was taking the job i have now. i almost turned around when i was outside the interview. but here I am, and i know that even if things get bad here and there I'll always be able to take care of my self because of the experience this job gave me.
>>18246618
Changing my major to something creative and risky instead of soul crushing and lucrative.
Authenticity, not even once.
>>18246618
I was about 110kg 10 years ago. Had no education, no future, sat in my moms basement and played videogames.
I started to shape up my eating habits, started to run on a daily basis, went down to about 70kg and then I got a college degree followed by a decent job. I also got a wife and a kid as a result of me not being at home, all fat and lazy, as a result to this.
A long while ago I forbade myself going to things that I could do from from home or under my own powers - like going to restaurants and movie theatres. I also barred purchase of drinks and pre-made food(s).
I have a lot more money in my pocket and I gained a lot of experience in the kitchen - I eat very healthy, too.
But mostly I think this was the best decision I have ever made because I feel that I truly appreciate what luxuries I have... I seem to evaluate what luxuries I plan to purchase a lot more, as well.
Manning up and tellinf my first gf to fuck off
Seems petty, but it was life changing for me. Until them, I held women on a pedestal, considered even the worst bitches something worth of worshiping just because "well, women are shit anyways"
After that I started threating every single human for what they are: humans with a different set of genitals. Solved a lot of self worth and social awkwardness problems I had.
>>18246618
letting go and planning my suicide
i have a solid plan in place to make my life better and i made the choice to end it if my plan fails
it's so freeing finally having a deadline, that, for better or worse, the pain is going to end
>>18246783
Most people in your previous position would consider what you've done to be a totally absurd fantasy. I just wanted to say massive respect to you for motivating yourself to improve as a person, and for showing that this can be done.
I've never had any "big decision".
It is always accumulation of small decisions. And I don't think I can pinpoint any "best" decision among them.
Moving as far away from the country I was born in.
Too much shit going on with family and past friends, which is still going on. I removed myself from the equation. I'm never living there again.
Volunteering for military service instead of killing myself.
>>18246861
kek
>>18247511
Me too. From India to US.
What about you?
>>18246618
Going for a run on a sunday night. Led to a;; the best things in my life.
>>18247531
Teach me pajeet unkle
>>18247571
Teach you what..how to poo in the loo?
Not aborting my unplanned pregnancy. I considered it briefly, would never, ever tell my child that. Was old enough to deal with it, even though it was terrifying at the time, knew I really did want a child even if this wasn't when or with whom I had planned to do it. No regrets, even when I occasionally realize that her problems are forever going to be my problems too even though she's a grown woman now.
>>18246670
I'm proud of you anon
>>18246769
What did you change it to?
>>18246783
How did you do it. I'm afraid to grow up even though it's all I want in the world