I'm in my 5th year of a 4 year degree and it looks like it's gonna be another year before I graduate because of so many failed classes. All that time here I haven't made a single friend.
My vices are porn and alcohol. I vacillate between successfully abstaining, working out consistently, eating immaculately, basically making good decisions, and binging on porn and booze, not working out, etc.
For the last week and a half or so, I literally didn't leave my bed except to go buy junk food and $2 bottles of wine. Today was my first "good day" in a long time.
A lot of the classes that I did manage to scrape by in, I probably didn't deserve to pass. So now I'm in a position where I have very little to show for my years spent in college and I'm embarrassed by my pitiful skill set.
I used to hook up with girls every once in a while from Craigslist casual encounters and that would go a long way toward sating my need for human interaction. A couple of them turned into longer term fwb situations. But since I've stopped doing that the isolation has been absolute. I wonder if my brain wouldn't look similar in a CT scan to an inmate subjected to solitary confinement.
Anyone been in similar situation and successfully dug your way out? I mainly just wanted to vent
>>18246379
Im sort of in the same scenario now, but ill be fucked before I quit school. Allah willing I graduate at the end of the year, ill be almost fucking 24 years old recieving my bachelors degree.
And i didnt even party, work an impressive job/internship, travel, or have a mature relationship (all the reasons it usually takes people this long to finish). If i think about it too hard ill hang myself tonight. Keep pushing on man, ill be out here doing the same.
>>18246390
Oh yea and give me advice about hooking up with girls online, im going through a dry spell and want some female touch to temporarily distract me from the infinite pit of despair and dread in my chest.
>>18246379
Besides hooking up with chicks on c-list, I'm basically in the same boat. My gpa is low as fuck. And i need about a year and a half till i graduate. I'm considering just going military, but I feel like if I do then i basically wasted my time. But I'm probably just gonna go home to my parents and attend community college to finish up this degree and be done with it.
>>18246397
Tinder is probably your best bet if you have good pics of yourself hanging out with friends
If not, then craigslist is the next best thing. Include a clothed face picture. It makes you stand out as none of the other guys do this. A couple girls I talked to about it said they filtered by posts with pictures so they don't even see the text only ones. And it's hard for a girl to fantasize about doing a faceless cock. Take the time to get a pic that doesn't look retarded, it's the most important part. Experiment with different lighting, thinking different thoughts while taking a selfie. The difference between a thousand-yard stare and dreamy eyes has a lot to do with what you're thinking when you snap the picture. Try taking a pic when you're in a particularly good/confident mood. Experiment with different ads. Instead of just saying "Hey girls wanna fuck this cock?" get specific. Somewhat counter intuitively you get better results from casting out a smaller net. You want a girl reading your ad to say "Wait a sec, *I'm* a redhead with big dimples who's into waterports!" Then just be normal. Once you get to talking with a girl, don't try to seduce her. Just focus on conveying to her how you're a normal non-serial killer guy without explicitly saying it
>>18246473
I dont have any pictures of myself, i never had social media so i would have to take them from scratch. And i feel like a fag asking friends to pose with me for no reason. I'll give it a shot.