Has anyone here been continually cucked out of apathy?
I'm pretty sure my current live-in gf is cheating on me, but I don't care. We've got a nice apartment in the city and it keeps the bills low, I'm enjoying the career I'm building, and friends I'm making, andI sort of don't care about her cheating unless she gives me some kind of STD.
I think I sort of see her as a gf of convenience (at least until the lease is up), and don't particularly want to give the house a bad atmosphere via being confrontational when I could just keep getting laid and having a cheap apartment and shit.
Any thoughts? Is this unusual?
That's soft
Leave the bitch before she leaves you.
It's pretty common, but that doesn't make it right. This isn't sustainable OP. One of you is going to break up with the other eventually if you don't put any work into the relationship.
>>18245044
sure. and if you can prove it, you can go ahead and cheat as well
>>18245044
I'd just leave it alone then dump her when the lease is up on your place and move somewhere you can live on your own. You should look for a new gf, someone you actually care about and want to build a life with. Not just a room mate you are fucking.
>>18245097
Issue's with the house I guess. If I break up with her the living situation will be fuckin' miserable.
Just wanted to know how weird/unusual the situation was really. Thanks y'all.
>>18245044
That's a pretty practical attitude to have. It'd be a trouble for most either due unrealistic expectations or own insecurities but if you don't give a fuck, there is not much of a downside.
You are either depressed or never felt attached to your gf to begin with
Beware, some STDs can spread even when using condoms, she can also give you genital herpes on your lips by kissing you
>>18245044
>Is this unusual?
Mutually beneficial relationships aren't unusual, no. Take a look at any big political power couple. Bill and Hillary Clinton hardly look at each other in public but it doesn't really matter because their relationship is one of convenience and mutual benefit.
If you don't care and like your situation then you're not in denial. You're being pragmatic in an unusual fashion but, ultimately, it is pragmatic all the same. I mean, there are a lot of possible factors that could possibly contribute to either a positive or negative outcome in this situation but as long as you're realistic about what those factors could be and go into this thing with your eyes open I don't see how making yourself care about something you don't is going to help the situation.
My grandfather always told me not to fix something that wasn't broken. I'm not sure if this kind of situation is what he had in mind but the parallels are a bit obvious.
>>18245365
Hey, she was pretty hot back in the day.