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My boyfriend wants to see my breasts but unfortunately when I

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My boyfriend wants to see my breasts but unfortunately when I lost weight they became very saggy and empty and deflated, my 53 year old mother has better shaped breasts than me

They're so disgusting and there's absolutely no way whatsoever that anyone is seeing them out of a bra, I'm close to crying whenever I see them when I'm showering so no way would I be comfortable showing them to my boyfriend

Advice? Should I break up with him? Should I come up with a way to convince him to not want to see them anymore? He thinks I'm exaggerating because I'm "too young" to have saggy boobs.
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post your tits or tits similar to yours
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>>18244242
99% he is right and you only think they are that bad cause of your insecurites

In the 1% off chance, just show them. Worst case scenario he hates them and breaks up, which is kinda what you suggested anyway
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>>18244242
The biggest turn off on a girl is her insecurity.
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my advice is to stop hiding your body from your boyfriend and don't let it ruin sex like you probably will

and if you don't like it, do something about it. start saving for breast augmentation.

it's possible that it isn't as bad as you think, but if it is, then do something about it and minimize the damage it does to your life.

/thread

you might not realize but this is bait
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>>18244270
Yeah I don't think that's true, the insecurity is nothing compared to the horrors inside my bra.

They make me want to throw up just looking at them.

I'm much more attractive with a bra on.
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>>18244267
Why do you think there's a 99% chance they're not that bad? They're literally worse than my mother's

I can't show them to him or anyone, ever.
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>>18244280
I'm not hiding my body I'm hiding my breasts

And sex is not enjoyable for me anyway, it's for his own enjoyment. I'm not sexually sensitive but I like pleasuring him.

I'm in so much student debt that I doubt I'll be able to afford a GOOD surgeon for many years to come.

And even then they'll just be inferior fake tits.
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Fuck this, breasts are good thing, no matter how they look like. They feel good in our hands, in our mouths, in our tongues, they are sensitive, its nice to press your face against them. Its nice to see them revealed, free, from the front, from the side, from the bottom, when you are standing, when you are at doggie. You should not feel like this, you are seeing too much model breasts or seeing too much porn. Its supposed to be something relaxed, at ease, and funny, and nice. If you boyfriend get DISGUSTED by them, he's stupid. If you like him anyway, try to talk to him about it so you two can become less stupid. Sorry for some bad english
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>>18244297
>i'm not hiding my body I'm hiding my breasts
are you fucking retarded?

cmon lets thread this. stop trying to hang the bait out longer. just pull it back up.

>Sex is not enjoyable for me anyway. I'm not sexually sensitive but I like pleasuring him.
Okay, especially if you're open about that and he understands it.

Not to pull you awkwardly between acceptance and change, but I was very numb with certain partners and then became very sensitive with others. It is emotional to some extent. Being ready to love can sometimes be an important factor. I do associate the two things.

>I'm in so much student debt that I doubt I'll be able to afford a GOOD surgeon for many years to come.
I see very good augmentation work done on average. It's not a brain transplant. Sorry about the debt. I hope you get that sorted out, because doing something about the breast sagging would be a lot better than fretting. Time and energy = money.

>And even then they'll just be inferior fake tits
and some people are dead instead of alive. you can't win em all.
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>>18244297
>sex is not enjoyable for me anyway
Do you even masturbate? Have you found your clit? Does your bf know how bad he is in sex or do you fake orgasms? Have you teached him how to lick your pussy? And with that insecurity of yours, you cant get relaxed enough to enjoy it anyway.

So which type?
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>>18244305
I'm sure you haven't seen breasts like mine, you are basing your views on breasts by your experience with your girlfriends or something

My breasts are no sensitive at all. And how can it be a relaxed, at ease and nice experience when you feel like an old lady or freak when you have your bra off

I'm just imagining how truly disappointed a guy's face would be when they see how bad they look out of a bra
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>>18244318
you're judging your breasts as way more unique and important than they are
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>>18244315
I don't know how anyone can't find their clit, it's so obvious where it is

Yes I've tried masturbating and I have a sex drive and fantasies but unfortunately I'm not very sensitive

He's licked my pussy many times I've never enjoyed it

I would say my tits look like this girl's but a little saggier
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>>18244347
>idk how anyone can't find their clit

I would stop pretending to have it all figured out. You sound younger than me, and I still know fuck-all about sex. That's also the best way to be, by the way, if you want the most hope for a marriage.


some women have clits so small and are so difficult to fully arouse that it's hard to even find the clit. some women have clits that are big enough to always be exposed.

there's some correlation between this and ability to orgasm

>>18244347
>tits are the most horrible in the world
>posts model
>just a little bit saggier than this model
stop attention whoring and close your thread

you make me regret humans being a thing
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>>18244347
>never enjoyed it
Get rid of your insecurity first and with bit of luck he will make you cum eventually. Just be honest with him so he can try to actually improve your sex game.

The lady on pic looks absolutely fine. You cant objectively rate your female body parts because you arent lesbian. Only boys can rate girls bodies and vice versa.
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>>18244356
That's not a model that's a blogger who doesn't like her boobs and has a complex, she dabbled in photography, her name's antastesia or something

Ok well my clit is big, it's impossible to miss
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>>18244360
>absolutely fine

Polite way of saying she has unattractive breasts that are tolerable
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>>18244371
I guess even if i posted video of me fucking that girl and generally worshipping her, you would call that
>being with her only because i pity her

You have to realize that as hetero girl you have no idea what makes boys attracted to girls. The image what media is feeding you is generally wrong on the subject.

But hey, you have bf, you can ask him yourself what makes him attracted to you in the first place (pro tip: you as a whole aka package of body and mind). But your insecurity is so big it blocks any logic and reason in your head. I bet even after plastic surgery you would still be insecure about your boobs.

Godspeed femanon and remember, the whole world is watching your boobs and wait for them to grow even more ugly in time :-)
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>>18244367
she sounds spoiled

now I'm not saying you're spoiled. I know more about her than you, from the information you've provided.

it sounds like there's more of a psychological thing going on here, and it just hasn't been figured out yet because you're young

I have image issues too. I have a jaw asymmetry that actually drives me fucking insane (like thoughts of suicide insane), so I ignore it. I don't have the money to fix it either. Meanwhile nobody looks at me like I'm deformed, and women don't even seem to mind.

Honestly, with my ex, I thought her stretch marks were a turn on. Love will do that to you, make you attracted to things about your partner that are supposedly "ugly," or better yet just not optimal.

It's because she was beautiful in general, smart, funny, talented, not very kind or sane...The men she got with were attractive too, just not very kind or sane either. If only they put more emphasis on being reasonable and nice people. Not enough people are doing that these days.

It's a waste of youth, you know. I feel older than my age.

Anyway, relating this back to you again, people don't even notice tattoos. This one girl on youtube was talking about how nobody noticed her tongue was split in half, not in five years. You think everyone notices the little details about you, but only those who love you even pay attention, and by then they're too clouded to judge you.

you'll learn
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>>18244371
what is your business telling this man what he thinks and is "really trying to say"

the sagging of your breasts is real, but the *problem* is psychological

which is not terribly unique either
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>>18244347
I think that woman has very attractive breasts
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>>18244242
The solution is to either you buy a boobjob or ask him as a gift.
THERE IS NO OTHER SOLUTION.
t. Big tits enthusiast.
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>>18244242
There's all sorts of boobs in people, not only perky handfuls like in magazines or porn. Boobs are naturally saggy because of gravity. Tell your bf clearly how they look like, you can try taking your bra off in the dark.
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Gain weight
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>>18244284
The fact that your body makes you want to vomit is extremely unattractive.
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>>18244242
Believe it or not, some guys don't really care what they look like as long as they can be a source of pleasure and intimacy for both of you.

Show him the trust of hoping he might be one of those.
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>>18244561
> be a source of pleasure and intimacy for both of you

What if I can't get pleasure from them? What if they're only pleasurable for him?
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>>18244594
Can't you enjoy being the cause of his enjoyment?

Some would find that a major affirmation - "I may not like my body, but it can't be all that bad if he enjoys it so"
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>>18244347
If your titties look like that, I'd suck the shit out of them.
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Aren't there procedures where they don't pump your tits full of silicone? I think they just lift them to make them less saggy or something. OP sounds like she needs to work on her insecurities tho because unless she lost 300 pounds her tits are perfectly fine.
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i know how you feel op. I don't wear bras bc I have a hard time breathing with them on so my tits are pretty saggy too. from like a quarter down my ribcage up I look flat chested despite being C-D cups. my bf likes them anyways cuz theyre boobs and they're mine
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>>18244347
Those look totally fine wtf
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>>18244242

Everyone says your tits are fine. It's only you who has the problem, and it's merely your own perceived self-image.

Get over it, the rest of us would fuck the shit out of you given half a chance.
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>>18244242
>Should I break up with him?
Yes. Break up with him and then die alone because every single guy you'll ever date will want to see your tits and you just can't handle it. Hopefully a neighbor will find your body before that cats get too hungry.
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>>18244270
That's just not true. A girl with insecurities is a great turn on because I know I'll be able to manipulate them into getting what I want.
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>>18246054
What if what you want is to see her tits?

Checkmate atheists.
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>>18246063
Are you actually trying to imply I can't talk a girl out of her shirt? I figured that out when I was 14.
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