Need options-- what do you do when you're continually accused of cheating or going on the dl when you're not?
I've gotten to the point where I'm starting to document everything I do (keep receipts, save texts, take screen shots, snap a b'jillion photos, etc) to prove I'm doing what I've said I'd be doing with the people I said I'd be with. I'm so sick of it, and I don't want to break up because I'm otherwise really happy but I can't help that his prior relationships ended with his exes cheating and I feel like a crazy person.
>>18240800
if something not obvious about you to someone and they're satisfied by "proof" you're providing to them - it's something rotten. It could be both ways. So your behavior changed to the point that it can be considered as signs of mental health disturbance and maybe that is the goal? So if you're not the one who is performing "trolley problem" type targeting - you're the one who is being targeted by a black widow type trolling.
>>18240800
Dump dump dump
>>18240800
First time? Laugh it off. Second time? Tell the person to eat a dick and fuck off.
There is no need to prove shit. If the person doesn't trust you, they aren't worth your time. Life is too short to accommodate to every insecure idiot.
>>18240800
I know those particular feels. If you're being accused and you haven't been messing around, it may be that your partner is doing something behind your back. Stand up for yourself and don't be a pussy anon
>>18240800
Anon listen to me. If someone accuses you of something and they have legitimate suspicion because you said or did something then it's normal.
But under these circumstances of it being constant all the time. Shows hypocrisy anytime a person thinks you are cheating on them they are the ones doing it and want to be caught or broken up with. Do not waste your life for this kind of person.
Does he provide constant evidence that he's not cheating? Maybe you can male him can try it out and realize how exhausting it is
>>18240800
Actually cheat. If you're going to be accused of it anyway might as well actually do it
>>18241612
What do those mean? Trolley problem and black widow