I'm in my mid 20's and I have been seeing this 18 year

>7ish year age gap
>she's fucking 18
>she cheated on her boyfriend several times
>she tells you she loves you but can't be in a relationship with you
>1500km apart
Oh my god, you actually think this is going somewhere, don't you? You claim to be an adult, but you're as gullible as a 3 year old.

>>18238168

I never claimed to be an adult. I know for my age I'm immature but I know I love this girl and I know things would be different if I would be living in the same city as her.

Remember she has only cheated on her boyfriend with me. It was after we have known each other for more then half a year and after spending an entire week with each other.

>>18238176
You are in for a world of heartbreak, buddy.

>>18238180

So it does not mean anything that she is calling me every morning till she has to go to school and as soon as she gets home she gets on Skype to talk to me till she is going to sleep?
And that she has talked about future plans with me?

I'm really believing that if I would live near her and that her parents would agree that we would be together and that there could be something more serious between us.

I can't be the only one who has been in this kind of situation before..

Guess I will just see how it evolves.. wish I would not think too much about things and just enjoy the time I have with her. Because when I'm with her it really feels like we are a couple. In a few weeks I will see her maybe I will ask her one on one to be with me..

>>18238198
not that guy you are talking to but someone else

normal people do not have this behavior. blame hollywood for making you think this is romantic, but it is fiercely codependent.

You mentioned it yourself, you are immature for your age. I don't have to guess that you are extremely insecure, and have cripplingly low self-esteem. Which is probably why you feel like this girl is your world, is your identity, and that despite the distance, the age gap, and the ostensible maturity level, it will work out in the end and give your life the meaning it has lacked.

Let me tell you, buck-o, you are not the only one who has been in this kind of situation before, and you will not be the last.

And when it comes crashing down - and it will, of this it is basically inarguable - you will experience a pain that you didn't know you were capable of as your entire identity is torn asunder while she walks away. And she will walk away, not because she is vindictive or cruel, but because she, too, has something inside of her that makes her cheat with older men.

Save this post for your gravestone, or do the wise thing and get out and please get into therapy. And please do not have any children.