Boyfriend and I are in a LDR.
Normally he is the lead in anything "sexual" we do (phone sex, camming ect) . I want to take the lead once , what are some things i could say or ask him to do without coming off to strong. He is pretty vanilla so i don't want to scare him to bad.
Have you met in real life and had sex?
>>18238132
>vanilla means the girl isn't allowed to initiate sex
That's not vanilla, that's fucking stupid. If you want to get sexy, get sexy. Tell him you've been thinking about him and you're turned on and want to do something about it. It's not fucking difficult.
>>18238132
That sounds so unsatisfying.
>>18238132
Ldr is scam. Meet in person or suffer.
And yes, girls are allowed to take lead in sex.
>>18238132
The next time you skype, just happen to be naked.