ive liked girls in the past, even had a gf once. ive always thought that i was straight, like i watch porn and stuff and love dem titties. But recently I've been talking to this guy and whenever he messages me I kinda get this warm fuzzy feeling that I've never felt when talking to girls. Is it possible to turn gay suddenly?
you can discover that your capacity for intimacy encloses both genders yes
Some human beings like the same sex and some don't.
>>18237557
Why are you asking? Does this bother you?
Forget about labels. Just listen to your own body and feelings.
in the way you describe it yes. but you're not actually turning gay.
but imagine if you were fed a steady diet of nothing but brocolli, and because of that you thought you liked brocolli and kept eating brocolli.
and then you heard that some people eat steak, and you look at the steak but you were told you only eat brocolli, so you just keep eating brocolli and dont really think you're missing anything.
then one day a really nice juicy rare steak is plopped down in front of you and you begin to salivate and say 'is it possible to just randomly want steak one day?'
you always would have liked steak. it just never seemed to make any sense to try it.
that being aid, maybe you're not gay. maybe this guys just special. maybe you wouldnt wnat sex but some part of your chemistry just makes you feel romantically interested. Romance stretches further than most people will admit. look at really close straight male friendships and you'll find there is a little bit of a romantic edge to them most of the time. but its not usually strong enough to act upon, plus the above logic tells them they dont need to... and they dont, they are satisfied by women. but it doesnt mean they cant have funny feelings for other men or animals or kids and that doesn't make it sexual.
human emotion is a lot more complex than
>you automatically make guys friends
>you automatically make girls romantic partners
human emotions predate such concepts and we can feel romantic feelings for toasters, let alone people.
>>18237557
Far more likely to be just a bro-crush. You like the guy as a friend, enjoy his company, and thus look forward to it.