How's it going /adv/? Lately, I've been kinda losing

>>18236967

So I take it you've never felt conflicted about something, because you didn't know what exactly it was that you're feeling, so it made making a decision hard?

I take it you'd never been dumped or had something blow up in your face, to where you felt like you were still hurting, but you decided to pick yourself up and force yourself to go out and have some fun anyway because you felt like that was the only way forward?

I take it you've never been so disappointed or hurt, and it made you feel it made you feel anxious about something, to where you were terrified of it ever happening again so you actively just decided to NOT think about it, and just try to live in the moment?

Look man, not everyone always knows exactly what the fuck is going on in their head at all times.

If you stop thinking, "Me, me, me ,me" and start thinking about it from her point of view, it's not unreasonable for her to be acting the way she is.

Fuck dude, YOU don't even really know what you're feeling about this shit. I don't know why you're expecting her to--enough that you think she's orchestrating some grand master plan to game you or let you down easy >.>.

>>18237091

Okay, so what are you saying exactly?

>>18237161
>face palm

She's not actively fucking with your head. She doesn't yet know what the fuck she wants.

Maybe she could change her mind, maybe she won't. It's pointless to try to figure out what she's thinking when SHE probably doesn't even know

Ultimately It's up to you if you want to get out of your own head and enjoy the moment and take this as they come, or if you want to bail and find something more concrete.

Don't ask us, there is no right answer here. We don't know what YOU want.

>>18237182
>>18237091

This anon knows what's up.

It could be that your just a fuck buddy for her.
But i can't see that being the case if you brought up the idea of a date, she seemed excited about the idea of a date, and then was unsure about the idea of a date bevause of relationship reasons.

Why not just be like
"Hey, look if your developing feelings for me, this can't work out."or whatever.


Its possible she's fucking with you. Or its possible that she doesn't know what she wants (which isn't surprising. Just try not to be a dick or "alpha" about it) or she knows she wants you as a fuckbuddy/something more (and isn't sure how to deal with that properly)

My bet is that she's unsure and if you're willing to, you should try and be cool and let her come to a decision.
But if you don't like it, yeah. Just forget all of it.

The other anon is pretty spot on though.

>>18237091
>>18237182
How are you autistic and still have people skills?

Is this a thing now?

>>18237182
>don't ask us

why the fuck did you even come here and reply then

fuck off fget

How do I find out what she wants without sounding like I'm on the spectrum?

>>18237389
drink a four loko and tell her straight up how you feel