How do I stop caring about love and relationships? All my hobbies

You should get a doggo man if you're feeling that lonely, but for god's sake I hope you have a nice job and a house too.

But anyway, you should be thankful that you're alone now, since some people have it a lot worse than you, like getting just divorced and losing all their belongings or having a shitty wife and a shitty job they fucking hate with all their fury and are really close to really kill themselves, etc.

So, it's either forget about it, get a doggo that will love you and care about you or move your ass, get more interesting and stop being an asshole and find a good girl in some church or w/e place you hang out somewhere.

Since you know how the saying goes: better be alone than in a bad company.

>>18236606
>Nice job and house
hah, jobless in college and living with family
we have a dog and a cat but you know that's no loving relationship, just a fun companion to have
I know and am trying to live by >better be alone than in a bad company.
but it's nearly an invasive level of thoughts about it, I know people go full single and don't feel like this and I know that relationships aren't that good, the problem is my subconscious didn't get the memo

You sound like you're in a rut. Best plan of action? Stop looking at 4chan until you get out of your rut. You aren't in a place mentally to be absorbing all this bullshit.

Start watching RSDtyler, coreywayne, etc type videos on youtube and learn the proper mindset when looking for a gf. Basically:

>Focus on self-improvement and keep the idea that you'll get the perfect girl at the perfect moment. Become the kind of guy that would attract your dream girl. List the qualities in your dream girl and think about them everyday, and you'll start to notice more girls that suit your type. What you focus on expands.

>Avoid porn! Never ever ever look at porn. In my experience as long as you are watching porn more than once a month, it becomes extremely difficult to get a girl. You're wasting useful energy on images and videos that could be spent working out, meeting women, focusing on your goals, etc. Porn poisons the mind and ejaculating too often results in low energy and sex appeal. Try to keep masturbation down to once every 4-5 days and never watch porn.

>Don't chase women, instead become the type of guy women want and you won't ever have to chase. Way too much to write about this, but check out the youtube channels I mentioned. They changed my life.

>>18236757
Thanks, I guess I should be cutting back on this shithole and porn
although I might have been unclear, I don't particularly want a girl, I just want to snuff out the desire for one

>>18236496
Get some real hobbies and you won't have any time nor energy to think about relationshits.

>>18236780
such as?

>>18236825
Artsy stuff work probably best but anything involving creating something or self actualization will do.

>>18236833
drawing then? already do gunpla but that hardly counts

>>18236834
>drawing then?
Sounds good. Though you really have to focus on it and not just do it for relaxation or something. It's not easy to find THAT one thing you really burn for but once you did, everything else becomes secondary.

>already do gunpla but that hardly counts
Yeah, it lacks the freedom for your creativity to keep your mind fully occupied by it I'd say.

>>18236844
to be fair advanced gunpla has some crazy user end creativity to it