Me:
>I don't have anyone to go out with.
My crush:
>How about with me?
Me:
>You don't need to sacrifice yourself just because I am lonely and sad.
What is wrong with me? Did I fuck up /adv/?
Next time just say:
>OK
Yeah I know life can be scary, but sometimes you need to stop acting like a total bitch.
I was just too scared to tell her yes.
>>18235250
>My crush asked me out. I said no.
>The girl I want to go out with asked me to go out with her. I said no.
Yes, you fucked up.
But you can still save it if you play it right.
>>18235295
Don't be. She asked, it means she's interested in you. Don't be a bitch now.
>>18235295
Tell her that you were scared.
Something like
"Hey Anon. Sorry for earlier, I was surprised by your proposition. I was scared of telling you but I like you a lot, would like to meet somewhere together so we can talk about it?"
>>18235250
Christ, OP. I think you need some therapy to sort you shit out before you even think about looking for a relationship. Finding a girlfriend won't solve your issues, trust me.
>>18235308
Don't listen to this guy, therapy don't help build confidence. Just say to yourself: do I wanna go out with some girl and be a man for once, or am I gonna keep acting like a bitch for the rest of my life.
Well I already had a therapy. Surprise, it didn't fucking help. He just listened to me and that's all.
>>18235315
Exactly, now do this mental gymnastic: whenever you feel you are lacking a certain kind of confidence, just tell yourself "don't be a bitch".
Trust me, you can do this. Don't forget the motto. Don't be a bitch
The reason I got spooked is because something like this doesn't happen to me very often. In fact, she is the first girl that ever talked to me for more than 2 hours.
>>18235250
A U T I S M
>>18235326
WHOOP DEE DO! seriously, just talk to her, tell her you're sorry, you were caught off guard. And most important, don't be a bitch