For the past few months I've been pretty conflicted on whether or not I should try having oral sex with another man. I've always been curious as to what it would be like because of all of the porn I've watched. I told my girlfriend about this and while she's upset about it she is willing to let me get it over with.
Should I just get it over with with a stranger? What is it actually like to suck dick? is it not a big deal?
>>18233645
it differs for everyone. some people think they love it because porn and fantasy, but dont. i always thought i wanted to be a submissive bottom, but sucking cock had no joy for me. turns out what i liked was watching submissive bottoms suck my cock. big difference.
some people are whiny babies, and will try it, hate it, and then act like its the end of their life and it 'ruined' them, but they're being whiny. its one bad sexual experience.
if you wanna do it, go for it, just know that this is likely the beginning of the end for your girl, cuz even if you hate it shes not gonna look at you the same way and this is probably a test.
>>18233658
Thanks for the reply.
>>18233645
As a bi man it's really not that big of a deal. Personally, I enjoy it a lot. Then again I like feeling submissive when it comes to guys. Doing that helps.
No idea about your girl, but if she found out about that you'd be screwed, I'm sure.
>>18233775
We talked about it and she wants me to get it over with. She's mostly worried about getting an STD from me.
>>18233807
Oh I see. Well I doubt anything would happen there. Be frugal.
>>18233928
Be frugal?
Your gf is probably going to dump you since she's not happy with the idea, so your options narrow down to what you crave more: trying a dick or staying in your relationship?