I've found out that my girlfriend is calling one of her

>>18228033
Yes, you should be worried indeed.One of them or both aren't over each other yet and they have a thing in which you can't be part of.It's prolly your gf that still has feelings.Step up your game, either tell her to stop doing it or you do the same.

>>18228033
Lol she loves him still

I'm talking to you like I would my best friend, no troll

>>18228033
Fuck this bro.

It's ass but she definitely still has feelings for him if shes going to do this.

Doing it behind your back means she knows you'd be upset.

You need to sit her down and ask what the actual fuck is going. If she sounds even slightly "confused" about your relationship you need to end it cold turkey. Else shes just going to end up setting up another relationship behind your back and leave when shes find a good enough excuse.

You probably will ignore this, but you're going to end up 10x more hurt later if you don't do this now. You'll also leave with the high ground, which feels much better in the long run.

You're never going to be able to trust her completely again now.

>>18228080
But there are two problems

1. The message i've read just said something like
>"Anooon, i call you this night, around 19:30, are you going to be there or are you going to karate?"
he responds normally
then one week later
>Anon?
>are you there?
> :)

So it's not really like they're sending kisses and saying i miss you so much or anything and i still haven't seen the other messages

2. How can i speak about this without revealing that i was snooping on her facebook?

>>18228103
Don't sabotage yourself, kisses emotes don't mean jack, you don't know what they are talking about.Maybe they have phone sex

>>18228103
I'm dying a little bit reading that bro.

Don't do this to yourself.

What you should was bad enough, the fact that they are talking behind your back like that is fucking terrible enough.

You get the fact that she wouldn't be talking to him at all behind your back if she didn't care about him enough to know that telling you would be bad?

The fact there is more actually just makes this even worse. I'd be basically done with this relationship now if I were you.

I got to go to bed now mate, but holy shit, you need to man up right now. Tell her at first it was an accident and you just saw one message and got nervous or something, anything, it doesn't really matter at this point.

I doubt they are having phone sex like the other anon said, but it's obviously fairly intimate.

I hate the word, but don't cuck yourself now man. Any trust you have between each other is shattered whether you get that right now or not. Talk to her sooner rather than later as well.

Only stay together if you know she is with you 110%, and make sure she knows she has to cut it off with that fucking creep. But even then I'd be outie.

Sorry lad

>>18228132
Thanks for your response man, i really appreciate. I still don't have the guts to face it, i loved her too much, we had so many great moments together, we've been through lots of shitty moments, i used to support her when she was sick, lonely or sad, i took care of her like nobody else did before and , she confronted people to defend me when i was the one who initiated the conflicts, and took care of me like no woman did before. But this is really bad, i know i should do something about it, what i'm affraid is that if she did nothing wrong and maybe she was just being friendly with him, i would be breaking her heart and destroying a woman that has given a lot for me.

>>18228153
Force yourself to face the truth. When this guy returns she'll dump you in a second and go back to him.