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I need to back out of a FWB situation that I agreed to. We haven't

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I need to back out of a FWB situation that I agreed to. We haven't done anything yet but awhile ago I got out of a relationship and then was hanging out with this guy I used to work with.
He's way older than me and didn't come across as a degenerate type person and even acted weird when one of my friends joked about me sleeping around. (I'm pretty degenerate so I was kind of put off by him seemingly being uptight)

Back when we used to work together he mentioned in a very subtle way that he found me attractive. Which is why I started hanging out with him as soon as I broke up with my ex. He kept telling me I needed to focus on my life as opposed to hanging out with him and then we just became friends and would text often because he wouldn't spend time with me other than texting.

Then out of the blue he tells me he's only ever been with escorts. I take pity on him and tell him that I was interested in a FWB thing as he was as well.

Here's the kicker. I'm not judgmental but I also told him up front that I don't have any kinks. Like I seriously don't aside from sleeping around but I don't think that counts as a kink?
So when I tell him that he busts out his "I want a girl to squirt on me" fantasy.
First of all.. I can't do that. I've never in my life, like I just don't cum that way.. second of all... that was his response to me saying I don't have any fucking kinks? why?

So what do I tell this guy now? I have a feeling he's gonna get pissy about it.
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>>18227207
Then don't do it?

What's your problem here, OP?
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>>18227214
I want to know what to tell him... I even asked that in the post...
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what a stupid fucking thread

you are insufferable OP, why would you type all of that out for such a simple question

>I don't wanna be fwb, what do I tell him

idk, that you don't want to be fwb anymore?

>b-bbut he's gonna get pissy

who gives a fuck, so what?

jesus christ you're so fucking dumb you know that? what a stupid fucking thread.
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>>18227207
Slut problems.
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>>18227230
You know what. I hope he makes you his kink slave. Fuck, you're dense, OP.
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>>18227207
Ignore the REEE not virgin allah woman bride must be trash frogs and robots

Anyway

While dude was harsh, kinda has a point. If you don't want to do this, you don't gotta. That kind of sex is BY FAR the absolute worst kind of sex you can have. It's not fun, it's not exciting, the entire time you're just kind of feeling meh about it all and end up feeling like you just want to get it over with.

That being said, there was no harm in just saying... yo... I can't squirt and never have, not gunna happen back when hen said it. No fuckingidea what he's thinking though.

Ultimately if you want to bail, he might feel like shit, but you definitely will too if you go through with this when you don't want to.

Sex should only happen if you want it.

Get comfortable if you can, but if you can't don't put him over you and try to sleep with him out of pity or whatever. Besides, if you're having a shitty time, he's probably going not going to enjoy the sex that much either (because it's pretty boring sleeping with a girl who clearly doesn't want to be there or is just meh about it. You'd basically be LESS immersed than the escorts he's slept with)
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>>18227272
>+1 karma
Here's your upvote, Redditor. Go back to your opressor or liberitarian polarized thinking website.
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>>18227272

>Ignore the REEE not virgin allah woman bride must be trash frogs and robots

look everyone, another turbo normie room temperature IQ retard !

what you basically wrote sums down to

>do it if you want, but if you don't want to you should tell him

wow such sage advice, thank god we had someone like you to show up and set things straight for us and OP
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>>18227207
"I don't think we should see each other any more."
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>>18227236
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OP maybe one of the biggest retards I've seen on this board to date.
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