A cry for Advice. This is my problem: I had the love of my

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2017-04-15 10:24:15 Post No. 18226581
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Anonymous 2017-04-15 10:24:15 Post No. 18226581 [Report]

A cry for Advice.

This is my problem:

I had the love of my life.
I was in real, genuine Love.
Im now, after nearly three years in a relationship with a girl i love and care for.
Im not able to feel real love though. Also im comparing her to my real love from former times.
I just want to relive my perfect relationship.
I fucking loved her.
Now im happy. Not as in genuine happy, more like "its okay" happy. I want to love my new gilfriend like i did with my former.
She is pretty, and deserves to ve loved (because of the shit she went through and so on).
But she is not as cute, quirky, kinky, sweet or erotic as my former gilfriend. She is more like block of clay or plasteline you have to form to get something.

Im stuck between The choice of
either letting myself the chance to love her (which would take months/years and isnt my "real love" yet) or breaking up and breaking her heart to the point that she most likely would kill herself (because of her [mental] problems etc.)

This is a genuine Question for advice.

Tl;tr;
Expiriencing the hardest love dilemma of my life.

Anonymous 2017-04-15 10:26:26 Post No.18226587
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Anonymous 2017-04-15 10:26:26 Post No.18226587 [Report]

>>18226581

>the hardest dilemma of my life

oh boy you're going to be in for some real eye openers down the road

Anonymous 2017-04-15 10:30:14 Post No.18226599
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Anonymous 2017-04-15 10:30:14 Post No.18226599 [Report]

>>18226587
>hardest love dilemma

I know there are way harder dilemmas, but subjectivly its the hardest love dilemma i (personally) expirienced.

Anonymous 2017-04-15 10:32:23 Post No.18226601
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Anonymous 2017-04-15 10:32:23 Post No.18226601 [Report]

I don't want to be that guy but, your definition of love is like
"Tight snatch, hot fucking"
Or something else?
Cause if first, you defenetly should break up, after a while same "snatch" isn't satisfying
But if no
Well just try to not look at other girls, try to share her/your hobbies like try hard, don't let go of anything, be in general "school friends" cause time will come and your human nature will kick in and do the rest for you. Also try leave half destroyed fake "suicide notes" like half burned, she will never leave you then :P

Anonymous 2017-04-15 10:36:02 Post No.18226610
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Anonymous 2017-04-15 10:36:02 Post No.18226610 [Report]

Didnt help me much yet... still thanks for the answer.

Anonymous 2017-04-15 11:32:08 Post No.18226761
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Anonymous 2017-04-15 11:32:08 Post No.18226761 [Report]

>>18226581
Give your current gf a chance man. You're lucky to have someone that cares about you

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