How does 4chan deal with the pain? Currently feeling like shit

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wow this sure made me feel better, i'm gonna go drink my self to sleep again, cheers

>>18220682
Woah mate slow down...

Last time I saw it happening I caught it early enough to have the choice between getting love sappy or hardening the heart.

I hardened the heart, but honestly I couldn't say how I exercised that control - just that it does exist.

>>18220196
Man try to focus on other things.
You're giving too much attention to her.
Give more attention to yourself. Exercise, read, research things, go for a walk. Leave vodka.

>>18220196

I rip my heart into 100 pieces and use it like currency.

What do I mean by this?
I don't invest all my emotional capacity for romance into one girl like a dumb dumb.
Lets say you have 100 "heart points" or HP as we'll call it.

If you put it all into one girl, and things don't pan out, you lose it all and have to slowly recover from the shitty heartbreak feeling.

If you invest 20HP in 5 girls however, you only risk losing 20HP at a time, so essentially, less heartbreak. It's literally nothing to you.

If things do start to pan out, you can slowly give up investment into the other girls and put more HP into the one that's with you.

Diverse portfolio and shit.
Economics can be applied to literally fucking everything, even emotional security.

As for how I use to deal with heartbreak before I became like this; I felt like shit until I got better.

This shouldn't happen to people over 20. Find yourself something to keep your mind busy and check your hormone levels.

>>18220730

That's what i've been thinking, i'm 31 i should be over this type of shit. 31 and it's like the first girl i kissed in school fucks wrong with this

>>18220706
That's the thing i've been focusing on my work for the past years, i love my work, I had no interest in her at all it just happened, one week i was "ok she's actually pretty cool", couple weeks later I'm a wreck. I can't not talk to her at work but I don't wan't to confront her and risk making my workplace a very shitty place to work it. Again i love this job and don't want to lose it.

>>18220751
>That's the thing i've been focusing on my work for the past years

Can't ignore emotions mate, no matter how hard you try. You can manage them, but if you try to ignore them, they'll blindside you when you least expect it.

I get that work is important, but you were ignoring a huge part of your biology - the need to mate.

I'm not saying you have to go out trying to get laid, but paying attention to a nice girl every once in a while and thinking "Yeah, she's cool" and giving yourself just that little bit of investment into the idea of romance would have prevented this.

You're lonely, even if you don't want to admit it, that's what your brain is telling you. Your emotions got sick of being ignored and hijacked your mind.

> I can't not talk to her at work but I don't wan't to confront her and risk making my workplace a very shitty place to work it. Again i love this job and don't want to lose it.

I get this.

Meet other girls. Outside of work. I don't give a shit how you meet them, even if it's just an E-penpal you meet on /r9k/. You don't have to fuck or get in a relationship if you don't want, but that bit of "maybe something could happen, she's cool" will help.