So there's this girl who is interested in me but she's

So you both look like shit and you want both to start working out to look less shit so you can be together? Why can't you just look like shit together and be happy?

>>18220138
You don't go into a relationship trying to change someone anon. You go in and take them as they are and not for what you hope they'll be in the future.

>>18220295
This plus if she loses weight she'll probably be able too get a better looking guy then you

>>18220138

Tell her point blank that you would go out with her if she lost weight. Don't budge on that anon.

>>18220332
absolutely true. At some point I know that she wouldn't even be interested in me if she was human sized. It's just an unfortunate situation.

has she said she was interested or are you assuming?

>>18220295
But becoming healthier is different though, anyone can improve themselves in that regard. Its not the same as having shitty character.

It would also be a win/win in the end for both people. But she has to commit.

>>18221220
Becoming healthier might be better, but that doesn't matter because it's a change you want. Maybe she wants it too, maybe she doesn't. But if you'll only commit to her if she changes, that's a bad basis for a relationship.