So I found porn of a girl close to me online. Don't know

>>18216679
Leave her and be alone.

>>18216679
No you didn't

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>>18216703
DID SOMEBODY SAY BAIT?

>>18216679
Stop looking at porn, because you cannot handle the ethical ramifications.

Tell the girl, and mention that she might have been subject to revenge porn. Record the url, and screenshots, she might need to give that to a lawyer.

If you are mature, thoughtful, and caring towards her in this predicament; then you can get closer to her.

>>18216710
Why are you replying to a bait thread?

Are you retarded?

>>18216695
Why would I leave her, she's not my girlfriend.

>>18216703
>>18216714
It's not bait, but since it's impossible for me to prove without revealing personal information I would rather keep, well, personal, it's up to you wether you believe me or not. Just do me a favor and don't derail this thread. If you think I'm a troll [-] and be done with it. I don't have the nerve rn to deal with 4chan antics.

>>18216710
>Tell the girl [...]. Record the url, and screenshots, she might need to give that to a lawyer.
I thought about that too. On the other hand I feel like it's best she doesn't know about this whole ordeal. She finally cut ties with toxic people in her life and is doing quite well. Haven't seen her this confident in like... ever.

>If you are mature, thoughtful, and caring towards her in this predicament; then you can get closer to her.
Not sure what you mean by this. It's not my intention to "get closer" to her, but I very much would like to see her happy. That's why I don't know if I should even tell her.

>>18216733
Real talk.

What's the porn like? Is it so good/niche, is she so hot that it'll likely be reposted everywhere?
If not, if it's just another girl with her tits out, I wouldn't tell her. You cannot 100% eradicate things from the internet and actually it can be difficult because if people realize you are trying to move heaven and earth to get it taken down, there's men who get a sadistic kick out of reposting it as soon as it gets taken down somewhere simply because they know it ruins someone's life and they get off on having that power to break someone.

I would only tell her if realistically speaking, this is likely to get back to her.

>>18216733

It is better that the issue come up in a safe way, where you can be emotionally supportive and lawfully helpful. The alternative is that the problem ruins her professional life, and then it will have happened too long ago to legally rectify.

>>18216714
gr8 b8 m8

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>>18216733
Shut up.

>>18216679

Post it. If not this is a load of bullshit.

Where/how did you find it?

>>18216747
By magic.

>>18216740
>What's the porn like?
Just casual sex. She's average to pretty, I guess. Not super hot in my book.

>I would only tell her if realistically speaking, this is likely to get back to her.
Yeah, I figuered. Thanks for the advice. Kind of makes me feel better about it.

>>18216741
So what should I do? I don't even know if it was put up against her consent (even though I find it very unlikely she agreed to it). Showing this to her would be super akward on my part, too. Like that other anon said, what's a few people seeing this? Then again, the fact I found it by sheer accident is alarming.

>>18216733
If she's not your gf then who gives a shit lmao

>>18216758

What exactly happens in the video. What positions, etc

>>18216758
>Just casual sex. She's average to pretty
Good, good. Even better if the quality isn't great.

The thing is that if she knows this, it will never not be on her mind. Any job she applies for etc she will be worried someone finds it. It's shitty enough if it comes to light as is, no need to risk informing her of something she could've lived a good life not knowing.

And it's VERY unlikely that she agreed to it. Especially if it shows her face. It could impact all her future relationships, her career. Good luck trying to become a politician if there's footage of you getting fucked online. She would need to be really really slow to think a thrill is worth all that.

>>18216747
>Where/how did you find it?
A couple days ago on this website in a reposting/ pics-you-shouldn't-share thread on /b/. I saved it, but I don't have the original source, if there was any. And no, I'm not going to share. It's a webm, so I couldn't reverse google it.

>>18216762
I'm glad not to be friends with you.

>>18216769
>The thing is that if she knows this, it will never not be on her mind.
>And it's VERY unlikely that she agreed to it. Especially if it shows her face.
Yeah... I thought the same and you are right, I really think it's best to not do anything about it. It's just not doing anything kind of made me feel guilty as well, so it's nice to get some reassurance in that regard.

>>18216758
>So what should I do?

Say, "I think you might have been subject to revenge porn. I can help you with evidence if you want to hire a lawyer to remove the explicit pictures or video of you."

Save the url, screenshot and maybe an html document, all onto a usb drive. Keep that in your pocket and hand it over if she wants your help. Tell her what is on the drive. If she does not tell you how things turn out, then ask in a week or two to see if she still needs help.

>>18216814
That sounds reasonable, thank you for your time and input. One last question before I'm done with this thread... What do you think about the other anon's tip to just sweep it under the rug? I have to say I like this option more. I don't know if I do because it's just the easier route for me to take or because it would be better for her sake. I'd like to think the latter. Fuck, I'm still conflicted.

>>18216831
>What do you think about the other anon's tip to just sweep it under the rug?

Something bad will come of it and that might make you feel bad. You can even appear to be a person who enjoyed revenge porn.

Always take the high road, even when it seems risky.

>>18216842
I'm taking your advice to heart and will think about it.

Thanks a lot, both of you. I hope you find comfort and advice for your problems as well.

>>18216864
>'m taking your advice to heart and will think about it.

When you have an ethical dilemma, always be self-righteous rather than passive. You cannot help anyone by being passive. Do not let apathy give you guilt through inaction.