>want a gf
>don't want to lift weights because i want to look like a cute boy since i'm short anyways
Can I hit two birds with one stone?
>>18214321
Lifting weights doesn't make you magically a neanderthal. Are you really stupid? I think you are.
>>18214321
Why cant you get a gf?
You cant change a girl who likes muscles into liking someone who looks like a boy.
Are you not attracted to the girls who are attracted to you?
Usually the girls online who like girly men are either fat or older.
>>18214321
>i want to look like a cute boy
I'm sure you're a pretty, pretty princess.
>>18214365
>Usually the girls online who like girly men are either fat or older.
Yeah, or really experimental or basically pedo.
>>18214365
>>18214389
>girly
Not exactly
I'm 5'6. Just get in the gym
>>18214525
Girls don't swarm men just for being fit
Order of importance when it comes to making a strong first impression that sets how a woman will view you:
How you dress, including shoes (most american men dress like complete garbage but never suspect it since they've never traveled to other countries)
How you are groomed (hairstyle, facial hair, hygiene, etc)
What you say/do (how "fun" and "confident" you are)
It's a toss up between fitness and career for the last slot. But if your career is so great that you're rich, then none of thos matters.
Of course different women will put priority on different aspects but generally speaking, this is the order. Doesn't matter how fit you are if you're homeless and smell like shit.
Btw, I workout religiously I can overhead press my own body weight and am a physical training leader in the military. I wish all it took was being fit to get laid.