What is it like wanting to have sex? I don't mean the urge

It feels like an increased heartbeat, hot skin and blood rushing to my penis while I kiss them touch everything my hands can reach before sticking it in and enjoying the warm wet smoothness that massages my head just right. The moaning and rapid breathing makes it even more exciting.

>>18213540
>Is "falling in love" common?

No, most couples are just horny for the first 3 or so years. True love is couples being together for decades and still being prepared to throw themselves off a cliff for each other.

Love at first sight is nothing more than an infactuation, true love takes time.

What does pussy taste like?

>>18213586
Sounds interesting.

>>18213618
Love at first sight or infatuation or whatever, is it something that happens often?

>>18213631
Pretty much fell in love with my ex on first sight and got together few months later. Lasted 4 years.
I don't know how women feel when they want sex, if I want a woman that stands or lays beside me I feel hot and extremely excited, want to hug her and grab everything, hair, neck, back, boobs, ass, legs and just mount her and get inside her and hump

>>18213667
I wonder if I'll ever get to feel something like that. Sounds like I'm missing out.

>>18213667
Why?

>>18213710
Damn I responded to my own post
Why do you wonder you'll ever get to feel that?

>>18213763
Because Anon is a man that has a penis along with a pair of testicles.

>>18213807
Yeah, but I responded to my own post when I wanted to ask OP why he thinks he'll never eyperience it

>>18213769
Things happened when I was a kid and I lost a lot of what seems to make people "real". I generally don't feel things like that. It's complicated.

>>18213830
Did you get at it with a woman before?

>>18213828
Oh I see, I thought you were a woman or one of those asexual weirdos.

>>18213882
No, I don't think I've ever felt anything for anyone so I had no reason to do anything with anyone. Sex is just one of my issues, it's complicated. I don't do things the way people are supposed to do things.

Hi op. Could you maybe be asexual?

>>18213905
Well I never felt it before actually standing in front of a woman taking her clothes off for me. You can't tell if you haven't tried

>>18213540
Love isnt real man.
Not in the sense that there are people you can fall in love with and people you cant.
Love is just being accustomed to having a specific person close to you for a long period of time.
Once their presence is gone, you are no longer in homeostasis and you grieve to have them back.
Thats why people will often say "i didnt know I loved him/her until he/she was gone."
Thats why best friends often fall in love with each other and why people who dont share the same sexual orientation can still fall in love with each other.

As far as sexual attraction goes. As far as Im concerned its an automatic process. I will think of the pleasure I will get from verious situations with them. Thats not usually from receiving acts but from giving them.

>>18213907
I guess I am "asexual" but I don't think this is a legitimate "orientation" especially since I have a pretty good idea of what made me like this.

>>18213919
>Once their presence is gone, you are no longer in homeostasis and you grieve to have them back.
>Thats why people will often say "i didnt know I loved him/her until he/she was gone."

I don't seem to have the capacity to experience grief/loss etc. Again, it's complicated.

I was abused and I still consider myself asexual. There's a lot of articles about it, if you try to find them online.
I used to wonder many times if I could ever be normal and try to force myself to feel attraction and etc. It wasn't until I accepted that I wasn't borken and there were other people like me out there that I finally felt good about being myself.
I wish you the best of luck, and by the way, accepting the word asexual for myself wasn't something instantaneous for me so don't worry if you don't feel the connection right away. If you have any questions about asexuality let me know I'll be on this board for lil while

Imagine being really hungry
Like you haven't eaten in days
And someone walks up to to you with a plate of steaming medium rare steak
And they just hold this plate of food in front of you while you're starving
That's kind of what it's like to want sex

>>18213938
You might be a sociopath.
Nothing wrong with that.
Go on youtube and watch some videos on how to tell if someone is a sociopath.
Humans are machines but we dont have a perfect reproduction system and some people are born defective.

>>18213950
That is unfortunate but I don't think I'll ever accept this. It goes way beyond sex and attraction, I have no core identity as a human being. In fact, I don't think I've viewed myself as human since the "incident" or "incidents" I guess.

>>18213959
It's different. The closest of the "big" personality disorders seem to be schizoid and borderline but borderline has a lot of elements that don't match my profile.

I kinda need to go now, please share how you experience sex/attraction and I'll see it later. I'd like to identify more of my deficiencies.