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How do I stop feeling inadequate? I'm slowly coming to the

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How do I stop feeling inadequate? I'm slowly coming to the realization that I'm 25 years old and I haven't ever talked about my intimate feelings more than once (and I feel extremely ashamed about that one time) in my entire life

I am sick to death of other people trying new stuff, failing spectacularly and just having a fun time with it. Meanwhile if I did the same I'd look like a fucking dork because I'm just that quiet reserved guy.
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>>18208796
Welcome to the adult world. What exactly is your problem?
Job, gf, anxiety, friends, happines, accomodation?

Just learn how to step out from your comfort zone and you will be fine. Try talking to somebody. Your parents should be able to help.
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>>18208844
Nogf, stable job. I have a small circle of friends but haven't made a new friend in over 12 years.

I can't make friends at work either. I try to talk to people and things, but after the initial period the relationship kind of dies because I never move relationships further. All the people I know usually made the effort themselves to get to know me, and I'm very uninteresting so it's difficult for me to attract people.

I have friends but I feel lonely. I've repressed my feeling my entire life, always played the asocial cold type guy but it was just a persona to hide myself behind.
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>>18208934
You gotta man up OP. I'm literally in the same boat as you (no gf, stable job, can't make friends/relationship fades quickly), and I am perfectly fine with this. I get to spend a lot of time on my hobbies, and don't have to deal with the bullshit that comes with having friends (drama, doing things that are boring just for the "friendship", etc.)
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>>18208934
Friends are overrated. You are old enough to start looking for wife material gf.

Stop being sorry about yourself and jump into dating game again.
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>>18209002
That would imply I was ever in the dating game to begin with.
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>>18209069
Woah
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>>18209069
Then like, what are you expecting adv to tell you? There are roughtly one girl for one boy on planet. So try online dating to brush off your anti social nature.

If anything it will give you something to do. Ans remember, if the girl will like you, she will withstand almost any level of autism and shyness.
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>>18208796
Apparently, you're just supposed to suck it up, or man up, or whatever bullshit.
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>>18208796
Didn't you post this before?
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