Kissless virgin 18 yo freshman in uni. A friend of mine joined

>>18207511
It sounds like she isn't interested at all, and you are grasping where nothing exists.

Your next move should be to hit on as many girls as possible, and learn from the experience.
I get that you like this hot girl, but nothing you read on the internet will make her more interested in you

>>18207546
Let me just fill in some info. I've caught her checking me out a couple times at parties and at school and Ive also noticed she's come pretty close to me at times like when playing bp. Not asking for a secret formula just wondering what y'all would do in my shoes.

>>18207581
Mate, I'm in college and I've been to countless frat parties

Girls scope out every guy they see at these types of events, just like you probably look at every girl there.

Her standing close to you has more to do with alcohol and being in a social setting. All it signals is that she isn't repulsed by you.

Now it sounds like you haven't really made any moves, you might not even be on her radar. The thing to do is just talk to her casually at the next time you see her. Demonstrate that you're a chill, normal dude. Then try to make her laugh, and go from there.

However, my main advice is this. Don't get caught up on one girl. There are tons of chicks out there, some are hotter than others, some are more fun than others, my point is this: just talk to them. As many of them as you can. Then, you'll know where you stand, and you'll know plenty of people.

>>18207581
Either make a move or leave it alone and hit on other girls.

Oneitis makes a man be a complete manservant pussy. No pussy shall be placed on the pedestal ever. Women don't respect men who obsess over them and don't do anything about it.

What you need to do is gain more confidence by improving yourself in every life area. Learn how to fight. Learn how to play an instrument. Learn how to fix cars. Fucking anything to distract yourself away from this broad. Then go out and meet girls. You will get rejected. It happens to all of us. Do more interesting things. Have shit to talk about. Make more friends. Wait a minute, you can now talk about a cool hobby, interesting events you went to, and she wants to see you again? Holy fuck!

Dude oneitis for a girl is the absolute worst thing you can do. She's your only hope for sex, which gives her the power to crush you if she wants, and odds are she won't be attracted to you because your so needy that without her you are nothing and THAT is the problem.

Dude, stop trying to see the things that aren't there. Respect yourself more. Stop letting these females think they can do what they want. You call the shots. Fuck anyone who says otherwise. But I'm telling you don't depend on this girl man.

>>18207613
Great advice man. I'm trying to break out of my shell a bit more and flirt/converse with some of the girls but it's not everyday I see an opportunity like this so I kinda got hung up on my first college crush. Thanks

>>18207640
Thanks brother for the advice. I'm trying not to fall in this trap of oneitis. I honestly was happy after I first approached cause I didn't have to live with the regret. I'll try to socialize more and take up a hobby.