> be me, 24 > tfw no gf > only ever hooked up with two

>>18206639
For the most part I can go hours (even when I lost my virginity, the girl I was hooking up with tapped out, ended up blue balling which I don't mind). Is it possible to "lose" the ability? How can I retain my stamina while jerking off until I find the next girl?

>>18206639
>and premature ejaculation (PE) advice
Think about Kevin Spacey's giant immaterial head floating above your bed reading a traffic ticket to you. Always works for me.

>>18206650
Less porn, it's the jacking off that makes the stimulation threshold higher for you, leading to being able to go for hours/ED (it's a spectrum).

>>18206708
Hahahaha. I guess I'll do that if my usual technique fails

>>18206744
So is there any real way to control your orgasm?

I can last for hours and I don't know why. Sometimes I think about other stuff while I'm having sex and that let me last even longer.
I really don't know how does it feel to have PE but try to go "softer" and don't think too much about it. Let pornography help you. For as long as I can tell, the more you're mentally "in", the less you're going to last. Pornography kinda deviated me since the first time I had sex looked like I was a veteran (the girl didn't notice that, we talked about it) and also I lost "mental" sensibility for sex, just like I need too see instead of do in order to cum (and that "helps")
By the way, are we talking about minutes or seconds? For seconds you should go see a doctor. For minutes you can improve, just know that the limit is a little more then half hour, women can get bored unless they're programmed to have sex and you are Rocco Siffredi.
I have a little of DE whenever I swtich partner for the first time, just like every friend of mine. So in that case is quite normal. The more you think about it, the more you're like to have it.
You're a pendulum that swings from two opposite sides. The most valuable advise I can give you is to live sex freely and relaxed. Care for appreciation only for girls you love, not for sluts.

>>18206758
I have the a similar thought process to you. My mentally "in" has been consistent in letting me last longer. Paying attention to how long it's taking to get her off and how she feels helps me focus long enough to get her off several times. But there are those occasions where I'm so used to beating my meat I'm more focused on the sensation of my dick and finish a lot quicker.

A lot of girls I've met absolutely love marathon sessions. So to me I'd rather go hours to stay in the safe side.


I'm going to confess I outright have porn addiction.
1. The girls are hotter
2. It's a coping mechanism for lack of poon in my life.
3. I just need a way to practice since I can't get any lol
4. Emotional attachments are a bitch

>>18206758
DE is a life saver when you're trying to make a good first impression

>>18206787
I felt the same as you for years and actually had crazy good sex with my ex (she also knew exactly how to make me finish).
Unfortunately, it's not so easy with my current gf who is less experienced and I'm actually undergoing an ED phase (which is a natural continuation of DE). Hoping this will get better as we keep going, but I'd recommend quitting porn if you still can

>>18206806
Damn is porn really that bad? I thought nofap was a meme

>>18206825
I don't know about nofap, but porn addiction and death grip are definitely real

>>18206829
I'd have to agree with you there anon

Any tips on breaking porn addiction? My libido is sky high

Everybody runs into that problem. I'm sure they don't really care or remember. If you run into it again, just say that your nervous, they'll understand. And then you can give them that good oral and still have a good time.

>>18207462
The two girls I hooked up with in my life didn't care for oral. But I see what you're saying.