How do you get over someone if you never got the chance to be

Time, anon, time.

>>18206404

even easier, you just continue living life and pursuing others.

>>18206404
Fap to her greatest photo everyday until it doesn't get you off anymore and you switch to some good porn.

So imagine having to get over them if you did get a chance to date them? What you're getting over is just a crush. So much easier

op here.

Actually kind of thinking of an-heroing ama

>>18207814
I know that feel, I know what you are going through. I want to kill myself as well. But I don't know if you've had crushes in the past. They go away or at least hurt less as time passes. You'll forget about her after a while of not seeing her.
Also, based on what a book called "Love and Limerence" says, a way to end an obsessive crush is to pass your crush to someone else, I mean forcing yourself to be attracted and obsessed over someone else. It sounds hard but you should hopefully know another attractive girl that looks like a potential gf (I mean someone that at least didn't show a sign of not liking you). Otherwise just look for a new girl and force yourself to obsess over her, it may work.
Otherwise try to think about the bad things about the person you like (sorry for assuming it's a girl, it just makes it easier for me to write this). I'm currently obsessing over a girl that's really pretty and everyone thinks she's a great person. But to be honest I got to know her and she's really a cunt, not because she doesn't want to date me but because I came to realize she has some really shitty attitudes in general. Everyone has flaws, try to look for the personality flaws.

>>18206923
This is unironically good advice I think.

>>18206939
I don't know if I can agree with that. I'm not OP but I would much rather date my crush and break up than knowing I never even had a chance with her. Dating her and breaking up means she at least thought I'm at her own level at one point in her life. But never dating her means that she sees me as someone inferior, maybe disgusting, someone she wouldn't even make the effort of spending some hours of a day to get to know better in a date.
If we dated it would mean we both at some point shared interest. If we never dated it means I think (thought) she's great and she thinks I suck.

>>18207870
I don't really know any other girls. And every girl I seem to meet is in a happy ltr. She's a 10 for me though. Definitely the most beautiful girl that's ever been into me. It's funny, everything she's done that I don't like, I call her out on it and she's so submissive she never does it again.

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>>18207901
That's the thing, she is interested in me.

>>18207908
What the fuck then why don't you date her? Why aren't you in a relationship with her if she's interested in you?

>>18207908
At least you know she's interested in you, that means you are capable of getting someone you like to like you back. Use that to remind yourself that you are good enough, that your self esteem should be high and for a good reason. You can achieve your goals and meet new girls that you like and know that they may like you back because you are good enough.
Me, on the other hand, I'm a useless piece of shit that has a hopeless crush on someone that won't give me the time of day.

>>18207914
She's been with this guy for like 8 months and they're happy together.

But she's planning on going to college on the other side of the state so I'll never get my chance.

>>18207926
Yes, but I'm really shy and it takes me months to build rapport with girls. That is way too long for 99% of 'em.

>>18207928
That sucks dude. Well I wish you the best in finding some new girl soon that you can make a connection with and form a relationship with.
This one you currently want will be far away so that should make it easier to forget about her. Don't follow her on social media, hopefully you don't use facebook so that should be easy.

>>18206939
this. You will get over it extremely fast, OP. My first big crush was this girl I worked with, she tried to hook up with me once while she was having relationship problems but I didn't go with it cause it was super obvious (she picked up when her bf called and wanted me to talk to him).

She was hot and we were pretty tight, and I was stuck on her after that. But I met a girl at the club, not as pretty but we ended up having something real, and when the girl I had a crush on started texting me out of the blue I didn't even consider giving her the time of day.

When my girlfriend and I did eventually break up, that's where it was actually bad. Like soul crushing. You've got nothing invested so you've got nothing to lose.

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>>18206404
the key to getting over any woman is to go bang other women.

>>18208004
I can't.

>>18208013
why not?

if you really cannot, then *that's* the fucking reason you're caught up on this one girl, because she's all you could get

>>18208080
I don't meet a lot of girls. Also, I'm not into white girls at all really, so there goes like 80% of the girls I meet right there.

Also meaningless sex isn't something I really want.

>>18208089
okay, then replace "bang other women" with "make out with other women". the whole point is that guys tend to latch onto women when they feel insecure in getting women. it's like how someone who is really food-insecure won't waste a single fucking scrap of anything, but a man who eats well will throw lots of food away.

Not being into white girls is 100% awesome as long as you're not white. I'm a big fan of sticking to your own race. Get on sites like okcupid where you can filter by race and go meet some whatever-color-you-are women.

>>18208118
I am white. And I tried using dating sites to meet more girls but all that did was fuck with my confidence for a long time. I generally wouldn't recommend it to anyone who isnt already successful with dating. In which case, why tf do you even need to go online?

Anyway, I'm introverted so it takes a lot of energy and dedication for me to seduce a woman so I only go after the ones I really like and I've noticed a trend that I usually meet a girl I could date about every six months. It's hard to feel abundant with such few opportunities.

>>18208151
...you're not into asian women are you...?

>>18208178
>>18208151
I've gotta run, but you really have some major issues if you're white and aren't into white women. You should explore those issues pretty deeply, because there's something wrong with you.

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>>18208178
>>18208198
I'm not really that into Asian girls, no. The girl in question looks like pic related so that might give you an idea.

I just think white girls have this hive mind thing going on where they all kind of blend into the same person. There's nothing special about any of them, really.

>>18208240
>I just think white girls are all the same

nigga you just went full retard

>>18210415
They kind of are.