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I'm going through a really weird couple of days here, following

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I'm going through a really weird couple of days here, following a really weird couple of years, and I really just don't know whether I am in the wrong, or whether this other person is just manipulating me to think I am.

Around three years ago, I met this girl on 4chan. I know it sounds bad, but I was going through some awful stuff in my real life, as was she, and we really bonded over a few months and became really close. We had a sort-of internet relationship but I was too poor to actually ever visit, and she was too, so it wasn't really anything official. She told me she'd love me forever no matter what, and that she'd wait and stuff, which was all cool. We kind of made it an official thing for a few months but broke up with basically a promise of getting back together when we were in better life situations.

Anyway, around a year ago she sort of straight-up ditched any idea of that completely out of nowhere, instead going after some random guy she just met. This pretty much just broke my heart, but they too eventually broke up without ever meeting in real life, and we started talking again.

Eventually she started asking me if I'd still want to go visit in real life and do some things together, and I was seriously considering it. She wanted me to pay for the flight or whatever but I had a free one and didn't care.

Then a few days ago before I could actually consider doing it, she revealed that she outright bought a plane ticket for a guy to go visit her, and I just blocked her on the spot for basically manipulating me for a long time.

Then she turned around and shit talked me on her social media for "tricking and manipulating" HER.

Should I feel bad or is she just an awful person that I should forget? I don't think anyone else will ever even pretend to care about me, gonna be honest.
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>>18203758
>interpret years of social interaction and make judgements on context you don't know about to understand a person you've barely been told anything about.

I think I'll pass.
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>>18203758
Hope you never meet someone like that. Seriously, she sounds pretty crazy, and even if it did work out it probably would have ended horribly if that was her response for not deigning to meet a stranger on the internet AFTER a breakup :T
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I don't mean to be rude here, but are you an idiot? Why the hell would you trust a person's love, especially on 4chan? And if that wasn't enough, you didn't let her go after she went with someone else. I'm not saying that relationships are bad, and I'm not saying that internet relationships are bad (mostly though, they are), but if she says she loves you, then goes with someone else, that is a huge red flag. Even if she was faithful to you, the confessing her love to you was a red flag.
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>>18203758
She sounds fucking batshit crazy, you dodged a bullet but you haven't realized it yet because your intense desire for affection is overriding your ability to think rationally.
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>>18203861
It was a definite red flag. However I kind of overlooked it I guess and was hopeful after she broke up with the other person because she was genuinely the only girl I've been able to enjoy a conversation with in my entire life.

>>18203867
>your intense desire for affection is overriding your ability to think rationally.
I'll admit this much anyway.
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