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I've started going out with a girl I met 2 weeks ago. We are really liking each other, I feel passionate about her and she [spoiler]claims to be[/spoiler] in love with me. We have slept together, tho we have not had actual sex, only been to foreplay, hj's and stuff. She claims "I like you too much to take things this fast"; "If I didn't like you that much, i'd be riding you" and "I don't want it to become just about the sex". We are in the same college and some people have already seen us together, so I don't think she'd be "cheating" on me with nayone in college. She has said stuff like she's in love and stuff like that, to which I have replied to feel alike. She's a foreigner from Bolivia and lives by herself. I am really, really enjoying to be with her, but...
I get scared she could be just playing with me. I feel honesty in her words, but she is just too gorgeous and likes all the weird stuff I like. Sometimes I get jealous at some stuff. She is not my girlfriend, but I am pretty sure we are going in the way of becoming a couple. But I feel like I might be the one being played with here. She just told me she is going to a party right now, which isn't terrible, since we aren't a couple, but we're almost that, I think. She doesn't drink, so there would be no excuse for "cheating" or anything.
How do you guys deal with all this jealousy? I am really insecure and have never had a girlfriend, even tho I have been with quite a few pretty women.
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Shameless self bump of insecurity.
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Overtime you gain trust. If she decides to leave, its better earlier than later. Be confident.. if you're too dramatic or clingy, you'll for sure push her away.
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You can go to the party with her next time?
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>>18200243
[Spoiler]she's crazy [/Spoiler]
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>>18200801
As said
>if you're to dramatic or clingy, you'll push her away.
I think you should ask around about her, like if you have a mutual friend that both you trust and she's close to, you could ask him/her if the girl is the player type or if she's actually the type to take relationships seriously. Other than that I think you'll have to ask her personally. Like do it in a smooth way, "hey I'm feeling kinda insecure or lost in what's going on right now, I don't know if this is something serious or if it's just us playing around." >explain how you feel etc, communication and trust is the only way to a healthy relationship. Good luck (:
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>>18200243
>"I like you too much to take things this fast"; "If I didn't like you that much, i'd be riding you" and "I don't want it to become just about the sex".
What I'm about to write won't help your insecurity but it's what I think is happening. Your girl slept with a lot of dudes and I mean A LOT of dudes in the past. She's on some break period and you are the place holder until something really good comes around. She probably had no romance with other dudes and went straight to fucking, but that's all most women know and she'll go back to it eventually. She is pushing you into the friendzone by not fucking you, you'll satisfy any romantic feelings while she fucks other dudes. Either get your dick wet or start distancing yourself with so you don't feel anything when she breaks it off.
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>>18201017
> t. red pill
but this guy might be right
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>>18201017
this
>>18201036
>t. bp feminist tumblr blog owner
oy vey
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