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What's the best way to end a first date?
So i hit up a solid 8 on okcupid. In only 15 messages, i asked her out last night, and this morning she said she enthusiastically said yes and gave me her number. In her profile she claims to be looking for a serious relationship. When we go out, I'm thinking i'll take her to this cool brewery everyone loves to grab a bite and a few drinks, just to break the ice, then hopefully if it's nice enough and she's still game, go across the street or down the street to one of two parks- this WWII memorial with a helicopter and all kinds of neat stuff, or the other one which has a big pond, trails, and a dog park.
Thing is i don't really know how to end a first date. Do i try and change the venue back to one of our places for movies? (No sex right away with someone i'm seriously after) or just leave it at those two things? More importantly, should you kiss her on date 1? Every time i meet a girl my friends always hound me, "did you kiss her did you kiss her? Did you guys fuck?? No? Man up dude!" It's annoying. I've heard plenty of people on the internet say they always kiss on the first date, but to me that just screams desperate, even if she's been receptive to you.
Imo, no kiss on date one, definitely do kiss her on date 2 whether she likes it or not (at least try), and if you don't kiss by date 3, you're done, going to be friendzoned or ghosted.
I'm quite confident most of the time, and have no problem getting physical with sluts, but first dates still scare me.
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>>18196627
fart on her face
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>>18196633
double dubs don't lie
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>>18196633
fpbp
>>18196627
If you think you two are compatible and you want to see her again, go for it.
If you're unsure, you could try asking. preferably not austistically.
However, you're right that you don't always have to kiss on the first date. First real date I went on in college I was too nervous to kiss her but we still hookup now, I didn't want a relationship so don't go that path.
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I'd keep it at the 2 things
Hanging out at a house could end up getting awkward because what if she just wants to be done after so long? I feel like it's weird to have to ask someone to leave
As for the kiss, I'd just test the waters. See how the date goes, what she's like. You can usually tell if they're going for a kiss or not. Definitely second date though go for it.
Your friends are just being guys
You don't have to tell them anything either if you don't like being harassed.
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