Is premature cumming your own fault and something you need

Yes and no

There are usually deep psychological causes to that condition, and some physical / psychosomatic factors from your lifestyle can have a great impact. For example, my sexual stamina and the quality of my erections suffered greatly during times where I was very stressed with work and slept very poorly, with little physical activity.

Overall it's usually a sign that you need to improve your lifestyle / health conditions, but if that doesn't do it you might have to look into deeper causes.

Is not dealing with it being inconsiderate to your partner?

>>18195156

>Is not dealing with it being inconsiderate to your partner?

No. Not giving appropriate foreplay is inconsiderate to your partner. Dealing with a physical condition is not an obligation you have for anyone but yourself. You SHOULD work into feeling more healthy, mentally and physically, and it'll help your orgasms. But never associate it with a duty to your partner, it's counter productive. A lot of it can come from you feeling stressed or some kind of performance anxiety, and telling yourself this is work that you should do to keep your partner happy is about the most self defeating thing you can do in that situation.

Alternatively, if you're the partner in question, it could be that your premature ejaculator boyfriend is just sexually selfish. It's impossible to know without more information, but suffice to say it's a complex issue that is never solved by putting pressure on the other person.

>>18195156
>>18195209

I'm not the same Anon, but I want to add something: People come with baggage. You don't have to take everything your partner gives you, but you have to accept that to be with people, there will be some crap.

Is it worth it to work with this (or any) problem? Depends on the person. You don't HAVE to work with it, but by the same token the other person doesn't have to stay with you.

>>18195090
>Is premature cumming your own fault or [still your own fault]?

What?

>>18195229

It says "and" not "or".

So in order to get it fixed, do more sports, become more healthy and get a future, check my psychologist and generally get gud?
IDK, my orgasms generally just suck. They are boring as hell. I'd rather march 10 miles than have sex, it's more fulfilling to me.

>>18195303

How sexually adventurous are you ? Have you tried going a bit more indepth in your sexual practice (be it intercourse or masturbation) ? A lot of people are just really bad at sex and end up discarding it without actually giving it an honest try.

>>18195343
I have no idea how often I spanked meat until now. I've had some sex but it leaves me feeling useless afterwards.