How long to wait to ask to be friends after a breakup and talk

>>18188855
You don't.
Move on with your life.

>>18188855
The best is never.

>>18188865
This.

That desire to talk about it is strictly a product of the fact that you're still not over it. In time, you will be, and you'll be glad you never went groveling back about friendship or closure because you just won't fucking care anymore.

>>18188878
But I miss her :(

>>18188916
I know that feel bro.

I have the same with my ex, been apart for 2 years now, and she was around during a hard time for me, losing my mother because of sickness. She eventually couldn't handle it anymore and left me. Still thinking of her daily, but that shit is only good for one thing, getting yourself destroyed because you keep holding back to the past. Try to get your shit together, pick up your life, get busy doing stuff you like outside the house, don't become a couch potato. You just need interaction with other people, that's what helped me a lot, and putting your focus in things you like, be it work, be it partying, be it sports, some hobby you have. That's what worked for me

>>18188855

however long you feel like.

Don't try to be friends with your ex. It will only make you miserable. You can't recover while beeing in cotact with her. It's like opening a wound over and over again.
Just ask her what went wrong, the earlier the better, and close it. Move on, trust me