What's the acceptable level of "mean" you can

Assuming she is giving you a reason for being 'mean,' Well the most vague answer is enough not to get you in jail? so abstaining from sex, hiding shit in plausible deniability or ambiguity, and just stop giving a shit about her.

>>18187672
if she allows u to be mean to her then she a keeper

being mean to your partner isn't healthy but I'm assuming you're in your late teens - early twenties and quite a ways off from a healthy relationship.
Best of luck

>>18187672
Beat the shit out of her.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EGNKgah948s

Please define "mean".

>>18187729
Just basic things like letting her know when she's annoying me or giving her standoffish attitude when I don't want to talk to her. Sort of dragging my feet whenever she wants to go out to dinner and spend my money. Not really engaging her in conversation unless I know it will lead to sex.

>>18187731
It's important to communicate when something annoys you. It's a vital part of relationships and you should keep doing it. However, giving a standoffish attitude sounds passive aggressive. That is is not the proper way to handle a relationship. What do you think you could do instead of giving a standoffish attitude? What if you told her when you don't want to talk?

>>18187742
She gets insecure very easily but I guess it's better than just ignoring her.

>>18187731
Sound like mean=honest. Always be honest anon. Your happiness is number one in the relationship. Let's your happiness trickle down to her.