I have a kind of a specific issue at hand. I just want to hear some thoughts, and also whether I'm a complete idiot or not.
I've known a person for a while, always had this sort of unrequited love thing going on, though they often mentioned how they would love to make it work, but how there are simply too many obstacles... so we are friends, with some strange underlying attraction.
This got really too much to handle, lately. I basically ghosted them. I think that was a terrible, terrible move that seemed completely rational to me at the moment - well, it wasn't. I plan to message them again in a while (a month or so?) with a cooler mind. I will apologize.
How mad will they be? Should I even do it?
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>>18182525
>how mad will they be
we dont know. maybe mad. maybe not mad at all. maybe mad because they feel superior and are mad you cut them off first. maybe mad so they can cut you off when you return. maybe mad cuz they kinda actually cared. probably not though.
>>18182525
I am that person and this is not the first time you did that to me.
I hate you. Also love you.
>>18182532
>maybe mad cuz they kinda actually cared. probably not though.
As in, they probably didn't care? I wish that weren't the case. I'm an asshole, but I love them.
>>18182541
It's not you. This is my first and last time doing this.
>>18182586
>i love them
that doesn't mean they love you.
when you say
>there are too many obstacles
>but somehow we can still hang out
that means the only obstacle is that she DOESNT LIKE YOU. you're not attractive to her, you're not hot, maybe your personality is even lacking on top of that.
shes not into you. so when a beta orbiter cuts contact off with a girl she rarely cares.
>>18182598
I'm a girl and who I'm talking about is a guy.
>>18182612
same thing then.
>>18182620
Thanks for replying. I'll keep your words in mind.