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My thoughts are that it doesn't seem like it's a good time to ask her out right now, I feel she doesn't want to date anyone right now. Although, I feel that she has some interest towards me but obviously can't know for sure. On the other hand, if we do start dating she wouldn't have to deal with other guys since she isn't single. It's been about 2 or 3 weeks since we first met. Any constructive insights would be appreciated.

>>18178664
2 or 3 weeks for dating may seem like enough time, the question you got to ask yourself is do you want to ease her burden at work or do you genuinely find interest in her since you said you do have many things in common, my advice, get to know her better. Take the time to talk to her and see what kind of person she really is like, if she dates anyone in that time frame see how she treats you while in a relationship if you can't stand that then go ahead and go all in and see how it works out. Another word of caution it will create an awkward work environment if she does reject you maybe not from yourself but on her side since you have no way of knowing your best bet is to play it cool and get to know her better.

>>18178688
Just want to clear this up but we don't work there. I'm 18, she's 17 but otherwise thank you for the advice, really helpful.

>>18178699
Sorry, my bad. Mega tired read it faster than my brain could process.
But knowing your ages that makes my advice even more important as long as additional advice. Take your time. You both are still young (me being 21 makes me sound hypocritical) but I fucked up my 2 year relationship because i wasn't mature enough to really fulfill all desires that she needed. Nevertheless my point still stands. Don't rush and make sure that you are confident where you are in life at the current moment. People change and grow as they age what she's interested in now as well what you're interested in now can change in a blink of an eye or in a few years. Your wants and needs as a male will change as time continues hers will as well. Don't be afraid to be confident but don't overdue it pride can get the best of you.

>>18178705
Thank you so much, I think I'll give it 2 or 3 more weeks and I'll judge my next move from there. Only once or twice have I felt sort of nervous around her but I feel very confident now in talking to her, I'll make sure not to get too comfortable and start acting arrogant.