hey, I'll make it short, my bf loves me too much and it

>>18177358
What's the problem exactly?

>>18177392
I hope you will understand, since I have a poor english.

It's been my first and I was his (so lot of mistakes happended), we met when we were 16/17 and he was really alone, builled as a child and didint go to school after 12. At the beggning, he was doing everything for me (my hobbies etc) then the relationship became really serious (about a year) and I started to see that except being with me, talking to me, playing he wasnt doing much for him, when I was not here, he was doing pretty much nothing and didint know how to live his life whitout me. But now its been 3 years and we're pretty happy, and he's far away from what he was before its been a harsh period, we were arguing everyday, I couldnt stand him but we worked this out and i'm really happy with him now.

Now, he got hobbies and everything hes really confident etc but I think there is a little bit left of it,. When we argue, I'm always the one who is "right", its always his fault when we're arguing (wich is not true) i'm really straightforward and tactlessly, even If it's rare, I don't want to be this way with him, like i'm not nice and I dont know when I'm doing too much since he dosent tell me anything. When there is somehting like this, he completly forgets his feelings, he said, just today that it was hurting him but he didint care and forget it quickly that because he couldnt be mad at me, and he said it's because he loves me too much.

now I just do not want to hurt him, I feel like i'm his mother. I just want him to do and say what he wants when there is a problem, or not and not just follow everything, I feel like i'm stopping him from being the way he wants because he's focusing tooo much on me. And its putting pressure on me because I never know if i'm doing the right thing etc.

I probably forgot some points, I hope it make sense.

>>18177358
leave them. It's the fairest thing to do.

>>18177489
I don't really want to

>>18177549
wear a leather bodice and buy him some clips for his winky

tell him you want to reconsider and see how he reacts
>baby i want you still
thats how u know hes a cuck lol

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>>18177632
>s how u know hes a cuck l
not always. Some people can be weak and unhappy in a relationship that they stay in. The 'cuck' meme is a cancer of the board. It sounds like OP is playing the usual double game as well


it'll end in tears

>>18177643
What double game?

No he's really happy, its when we argue.

>>18177677
>No he's really hap
"No"

>>18177741
what make you think that?

>>18177358
It's called young love (assuming you're young). It'll die down eventually. Love is new to him, so he thinks going the extra 1000 yards will be seen as romantic. You should feel lucky he cares about you so much -- think about it, what if he wasn't? Well, you'd be here complaining about something like, "omg my bf doesnt show me he cares enough."

Anyway, it's normal for people who aren't really experienced in relationships. His spark, butterflies or whatever you call it will die down after a year -- by then, that overwhelming love for you will turn, hopefully, into a mature, calmer love that is really more about appreciation.